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I did a search for this and didn't see anything but apologize if it has been discussed elsewhere. I'm just curious how often those that are little are in little space and go into the whole little thing with their daddy? My wife and I, as I have said before, are still learning where we are in this kink but have come a long way since I have posted something last. We are starting to interact more as a daddy and little girl through out the day via phone and when we are at home we will make sly comments that we know what they mean but our kids dont. Want I want to know is for those that ddlg couples that have kids or don't but have busy lives do you only do the ddlg thing the last couple of hours after everything calms down or do you live it all the time in some ways or another. I know there is not one right way yo live it's whatever works, I'm just curious what others do, especially those with really busy lives or kids and does I'd you only do it sometimes because of kids is it working for you. Because most of the time we only act it out at the end of the night. Not always but sometimes, I'm sure part of it is we are still learning and growing in this. Thanks
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That's awesome you and your wife have made progress! As for me, I usually slip into little space right after my classes, during lunch, and when I get home. Because I can't talk to Daddy at work, I usually send him cute texts or doodle pictures for him. It would be amazing to be in little space 24/7 but with college and work we only get to see each other during the evenings:/

Best of luck to both of you

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I'll add a different perspective!

I don't have a set "little me" and "big me". I'm just me. I do the things that need to be done with the right mindset, but I don't have any trouble switching back and forth or being in both at the same time. I can suck my thumb and read my textbook. I can hug my stuffie and talk about politics.

 

You said the term "act it out" and, for me at least, it's not something that I act out. It's part of who I am. I was just relieved and a little (hehe get it) shocked when I found out other people were the exact same way. Not that there's anything wrong with acting it out, but for me it's more of a lifestyle, not a kink.

 

am a little. All the time. I don't do little things all the time, because I have a lot of big girl things to do, but I am still a little 100% of the time.

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I'm similar to cuppycakes generally, however right now I'm unable to feel little even while doing little things. My Daddy and I have two children, and we just change the way we do things slightly to make them more kid friendly while they're up and about. We're still a Daddy and little. It's hard but we make it work. I'm also their mother and a big girl who has to make big girl decisions sometimes. It's finding a balance of how you can be little all the time and make it fit into your life.
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I'm similar to cuppycakes generally, however right now I'm unable to feel little even while doing little things. My Daddy and I have two children, and we just change the way we do things slightly to make them more kid friendly while they're up and about. We're still a Daddy and little. It's hard but we make it work. I'm also their mother and a big girl who has to make big girl decisions sometimes. It's finding a balance of how you can be little all the time and make it fit into your life.

Thanks, we talked last night and she had mentioned how she is enjoying being my little princess but only when I'm around. She is so independent and strong willed when I'm not around she doesn't think about being little or doing little things but doesn't mind going there when I get home, many tinned though she is so stressed I have to take control and help her get out of her own head but when I do she is so thankful for it. I think that's where I think we seem different than most on here because she doesn't do any of it on her own except maybe sleeping with her bear sometimes and coloring at work which I know is little stuff coming through. I was mostly tying to see if others were similar. Thanks for the input.

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I'll add a different perspective!

I don't have a set "little me" and "big me". I'm just me. I do the things that need to be done with the right mindset, but I don't have any trouble switching back and forth or being in both at the same time. I can suck my thumb and read my textbook. I can hug my stuffie and talk about politics.

 

You said the term "act it out" and, for me at least, it's not something that I act out. It's part of who I am. I was just relieved and a little (hehe get it) shocked when I found out other people were the exact same way. Not that there's anything wrong with acting it out, but for me it's more of a lifestyle, not a kink.

 

I am a little. All the time. I don't do little things all the time, because I have a lot of big girl things to do, but I am still a little 100% of the time.

I like that perspective, she acknowledges she has a little side and little tendencies but never saw it before and is just now trying to get familiar with this side of herself. She does have a hard time being both and does feel like its tough to go back and forth but also said that she does incorporate some things in her daily life like wearing bows in her hair now, coloring at work and starting to talk little via text to me. So she is starting to incorporate both and she has noticed it's helped with her stress level. We both said last night that we are excited to see what this morphs into later. Its been fun to see how our relationship had gotten stronger.

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Tbh I'm little like 70% of the time, I haven't gotten to the point where I ca control it well, I tend to go into little space at school a lot, and also when I talk to Daddy and see Daddy 

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Like some others have said, my little side is a part of me all the time.

 

However, I don't get to go into my "little space" and actually do "little" things very often. Given that I don't have a CG or very much time to be little on my own, it can be difficult to fit my little side into my life at all. It's been about a month or two since I've done any specifically "little" activities. Sometimes there's just not enough time for it unfortunately. 

 

Also, when I go into my little mindset fully, it's very difficult for me to "snap out of it". When I do go into little space, I need to know that I won't get interrupted for a while. If I had more opportunity to be/feel little, maybe I'd get better at controlling that, but I haven't learned that skill yet :) 

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