littles without caregivers - what are your fantasy rules/punishments?

[princess gremlin]

I have never had a formal caregiver - only a handful of guys who have known somewhat about my ddlg and allowed me to call them daddy briefly, without commitment. so currently my ideal ddlg relationship complete with rules, punishments, and rewards is only in my head!

 

I figured I couldn't be the only little who feels this way, so I figured I'd put it out there!

 

For me personally, my ideal rules would be based majorly on chores and self care. I'm a fairly lazy college student with ADD who procrastinates a lot, so more often than not my room needs cleaning, my laundry needs to be done, I have homework due, tests to study for... Plus a daddy just making sure I eat healthy and shower and go to bed on time would be amazing and would make me feel so taken care of - except for when I would whine about it and be a brat. Because eating healthy and going to bed on time are both not my thing, but I would try my best. A rule about having to eat certain vegetables at dinner (my college dining hall lol) would drive me crazy, especially if I had to eat them to leave the table or earn dessert.

 

For punishments I would like spanking, first and foremost. I'm so curious still about receiving a real punishment spanking, all play aside. But also things like writing lines, writing assignments, early bedtime, etc... all sound good in theory.

 

I don't have many ideas about rewards, but one main one I think about a lot is if my daddy gave me some form of sticker chart, and once I got a certain number of stickers for completing chores, tasks, and assignments, my daddy would take me to Toys R Us to get a small toy or something! If I got to pick out one toy in Toys R Us I honestly think glitter would explode inside my heart. (And the toy would probably be a stuffie or kinetic sand)

[DeathMetalPrincess]

I don't have a mommy or a caregiver rn, but I think LOTS of spanking needs to be involved for punishments. Grounding, having something taken away, time out, etc. are also good punishments in my mind. Maybe no TV or something for a Lil bit too? I'm not totally sure about rewards. I've never had a reward system tbh. Maybe a good reward would be getting to do special stuff, or your caregiver buys you something you reaaaally want if you're being good. I like the idea of early bedtime, but none of my caregivers in the past really had a bedtime for me anyway so idk.

[Fox&Bunny]

I've had similar noncommited daddy calling relationships to you, baby girl. Honestly a lot of the points you mentioned were me: college student, procrastinator, easily distracted, etc.

 

Your idea of a sticker chart is great for a reward, I've been thinking about something similar. I would also love it if they gave me a whole day to myself doing whatever I wanted to do. If I've been a really good girl and deserve a very big reward I'd love to do something with animals like horseback riding or visiting a zoo.

 

I would reaaaally want a daddy who sets rules for me and I know I'm bratty so he couldn't do empty threats. All of these punishments are in theory because I've never had any actually done: spankings, timeout, early bed time, and not being able to do cummies are my top punishments

[Pup]

I have a boyfriend, but he doesn't want to be my daddy/caregiver. It's really hard this way. I fantasize a lot about him being a daddy, but I know it's not going to happen.

 

When I fantasize, I fantasize a lot about the punishments too. I fantasize the whole day about being spanked, just staring to a wall or a tree and sometimes waking up from my daydreams. I like daydreaming so much, just because the idea of being spanked feels so good. And that happens a lot in my daydreams.

 

Sexual punishments, like being tied up, my hair pulled and said to be a good girl next time is also what I would like.

 

Warnings in a low voice.. I miss that too.

 

I haven't thought about rewards much, but a sticker chart would be nice. And being pet on my head while watching a disney movie could also be a reward.

 

My fantasy rules would be: eating healthy, working out, clean the dishes, a set bedtime, doing homework, not touching my princess parts without permission, no swear words, and maybe some more rules. (I haven't thought much about rules, but I like to make my own someday.)