Guest LittleMissJJ Posted April 16, 2017 Report Share Posted April 16, 2017 (edited) Hi guys! I apologise straight away for what I know will be a long post... I'm brand new to the DD/lg dynamic - I didn't even know it was a thing before because I was embarrassed to admit it was something I would like. I've always watched daddy/daughter porn and read online stories about daddies. I've also always known I was submissive and have explored D/s dynamic in the past, I just also need to feel cared for and protected. I've always liked to draw and paint and colour, I've always had fluffy animals and worn clothes with my favourite cartoon prints or cute jewellery in all of the colours I can find! I watch kids TV to take naps and love Disney/Harry Potter/Care bears/my little pony... Anyway, I broke up with my fiance last year and have been a bit lost since then. It was a vanilla relationship and when he saw my internet history he really freaked out so we never really talked about it again and I always felt that my what I wanted was wrong or something to be ashamed of. Now that I'm single and starting to move on a little bit I've been going on dating apps like Tinder and Bumble trying to meet someone nice just to date and have fun with. That's where I met my first daddy. Except, he's not really my daddy, we just talk a lot and he's the one that introduced me to DDlg. He's really into it and his ex was not - he's also into ABDL and has introduced me a little bit to that. My worry is that I've gone about this all wrong - I'm so curious about the DDlg community now, it feels like I've suddenly found something that I completely click with. It's really exciting and I want to explore everything about it! The only problem is that I'm not sure that the one I'm talking to is looking to be my daddy or if he just wants to keep talking and being playful without really helping me to find my own little. The second problem is that, if we do meet, despite me being really interested and curious, I'm worried that I'm so new to everything that I won't be little enough and it might ruin things and make me embarrassed to be little around him. How do you all get into little space? Is it something that always came naturally, or something that took practice? My grown up life means I always have to be super responsible and I get anxious and over-analyse things in my daily life. How do you get out of your own head and stop worrying about being silly or annoying or needy? The only time I feel fully little is when I'm cuddled up with Lotso bear and watching a movie or listening to music and colouring, but that's something I did just for me and didn't ever call it being little at the time. I would really appreciate any advice anyone can give me. I feel like DD/lg is a 'fit' that I've never felt before, I just want to be able to put my big life to one side and embrace it, and I worry that's a difficult thing for me to do. Edited April 16, 2017 by LittleMissJJ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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