glgkittykat99 Posted April 18, 2017 Report Share Posted April 18, 2017 (edited) okay so im pretty sure that this is a very sensitive topic im an 18 y/o little and i've been into it even wen i was under 18 (researchinf it to see if it was right for me, looking at other ddlg relationships etc) but i guess since this is a site dedicated to this dynamic i find that i've seen a lot of stuff about younger littles being immature and.... i guess just not caring about the actual dynamic or sumthing like that im just stating my opinion and while i do want to see what others think i really hope this doesn't turn into an argument because i have seen stuff like this turn into them - i hope i don't hurt anyone's feelings and i'm sorry if i do again this is purely only my opinion and i just feel like i need to say this because i don't see many younger littles posting or replying wat it is that im thinking.... so i guess to start off * ddlg became mainstream????? i've seen this a lot - that younger littles aren't rlly into the dynamic and are just doing it as a trend/phase but.... i didn't know this - i'm very cautious about any type of relationship and so of course, even more about a dynamic - i make sure that i rlly do want to do it because it really does seem right (which ofc, ddlg is for me) *younger littles are immature......? hmmm well again this is purely my opinion only but.....there are different kinds of immature in this case i think.... i mean there's 1. the non communicating, shunning, overdramatic immature and i think lots of people have has been this person at some point in time - i just do (im not excluded, i've been this person) -- but this is just temporary most of the time and is bad in ANY kind of relationship so ... isn't it wrong to say that this is a problem younger littles have and 2. the other kind of immature is the one where the little is "overdependent" on the cg (i think!) and i will say that i see this too but where as it's a problem sometimes, in some relationships; this is perfect and "overdependecy" is impossible because the dom WANTS to be relied on and etc. etc. ummmm these are the only two points that i can really remember because they're what i really really see - quite often (here as well as other places) but heres my actual reason/ motivation for making this i guess most people that say the above things tend to say "no offense" but.... it's really hard to i guess not take offense of it - i find that 99% of the time i can NOT take offense but what does ALWAYS happen to me - without fail is that i'll feel sad/upset/etc.etc. because it's as though i've just been told that i am too young to belong here- it's WRONG that im into ddlg because i take posts saying those things seriously; the people who (to me, again im sorry if this sounds like i took offense - like i said hard not to) basically say that young littles are i guess, false littles are older and more experienced littles and sometimes doms - and i value EVERYTHING that they say whether i want to or not and i take it to heart because the fact is: they do know this dynamic better and i always get down to "what if they're right? and i should leave this dynamic because even though i think i'm serious about it - im not???" anywhose heres the essential question to the older littles and doms -- am i right? when i think like that? am i wrong? to the younger littles and of course, if you'd like to - younger doms -- have u ever had thoughts like mine? that you don't belong? again - i really hope i didn't hurt anyones feelings but im also realisitc so.....i probably did and if i did - im sorry i really really am i just think that this point of view needs to be said..... (also sorry that it's un organized and messy i don't really have a good filter) Edited April 18, 2017 by glgkittykat99 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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