The Alpha Ace Posted April 18, 2017 Report Share Posted April 18, 2017 Hello wonderfull internet people, Today's post might be a big long, sorry in advance Ages Me: 32 Her Mum : Mid 40's B: 21 M: 12 E: 3 Right backstory, I met B on my Birthday last year and we've been dating ever since, either spending the weekend at hers or she comes to mine for it Recently I introduced her to my real life daughter and they had a blast, she met her sister wh has mild autism, as does my daughter and they we're playing and doing things kids do, then a couple of weeks back we go to her brothers engagement party and spend the weekend staying with her, my daughter loved it she really was a happy little camper, as was B and M Fast forward to home day, and we say our goodbyes and thank everyone for the weekend including her mum, last that night B rings me and tells me her mum disproves of me following a number of issues which I will list below 1. The special gift I got her for christmas, one of those heart barcelets thats lockable (nothing sinister) 2. That I usually always have a small token give, say a small bear or something simillar, something less than a £1/$1 3. That we don't have any break weekends, (this one annoys me as we dont live in the same city so we only generally see each other at weekends, unless its a holiday) 4. That I spend to much of my own money to out do her, and one up her, i.e buying a newer iPad than she has because i always have to be bigger and better (this annoys me, because I got the iPad 2nd hand so its not like I went to Apple and bought and brand new one) 5. That I sometimes forget to say Please/Thank you, (I am only human?? ) 6. That I always take her back to her house after a weekend here and she doesn't feel like her daughter is independant enough 7. That I let her and her sister look after my own daughter and I didnt pay close enough attention (i'll explain this in more detail) Okay at the engagement party my daughter was playing with all the ballons and running around after her sister, I had eyes on her at all times, but I was told by her grandad that their were enough adults around and I don't need to panic (hence I wasn't following her around and watching everything she did, if that makes sense) The following day, we are mostly at her mum's and again my daugther is happy playing with her sister and just having fun, I am sat watching and playing when my daughter pulls me too her to play. Move on to sunday dinner at her grandparents, and I let my daughter explore upstairs aided by her sister, so I wasn't worried where she was and so on. Now because of all this the next time she comes to my house she will leave early on the sunday to ensure its not dark and unsafe when she gets back as she'll be walking home alone (I swear if something bad happens, I will let rip with her mum) So I have to loose out on daddy time because of this. Am I being unfair, Am I in the wrong? The way I see it im just being a normal dad, whos looking after his child and his gf and actually care aboout them both? So folks need some advice because I can't carry on like this, its going to hurt the relationship in the long run if I cant resolve these issues many thanks for reading and I'll take all advice I can get Thanks Ace B is 21 my Daugther is 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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