Leo_Ascendent Posted April 21, 2017 Report Share Posted April 21, 2017 Hello all, So maybe it's just me, but having been in the community for almost a decade, I can't help but notice some things, that I'm sure some have noticed as well, that seem to be double-standards (c'est la vie, I suppose). Shouldn't really matter, but it bugs me to no end, for whatever reason. On another site, I've ran into many Caregivers that are often told they can't be Daddy's/Mommy's because of their age. This is usually by older people, almost always a "Daddy" telling someone who is 18-25 or so that they can't because they aren't old enough, experienced, skilled, etc It's honestly pretty sad that a community like ours, where we get enough BS from "normal" society for our likes, that we have this perception as well. The even bigger catch, those same "Doms" are almost always (again, just from what I have personally seen) trolling for fresh 18-21 year olds. So to them, you can only be a Little if you're still young, but you gotta be 30+ or whatever to be a Daddy. I've been told I can't be a DD because I was only 25 at the time, to which I just laughed at the clown and blocked him, but for many, I've seen them get discouraged all together. And retreat or have their confidence shaken. Anyways, just me venting a bit, wondering if anyone else has seen this, or sadly, experienced it themselves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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