How Did You Meet Your CG/L?

[Leo_Ascendent]

Hello all,

 

Just curious how everyone met their partner. There's not exactly a dating site made for CG/L types (or is there?). Is there a story? Lucky twist of fate?

 

For me, I actually met my Little on Tindr of all places. Her profile said she wasn't for the tame, and after talking she told me she was in to kink.

 

At some point, I had told her that I was a DD, but she was pretty adamant that she wouldn't call me Daddy due to past experiences with ex's. After we had been together awhile, she started calling me her Daddy.

 

Since then, we've been happily leading a DDlg life.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

My Daddy and I actually met on a vanilla dating website. He had messed around a little in kink and with toys, I was completely vanilla. We discovered DDlg together. It fits us and feels like a piece that was missing from our lives.

 

I was adamant I'd never call him Daddy too, now I do. We're married with two kids so our outward shows of our dynamic are slightly limited.

[cuppycakes]

My daddy and I met in highschool! We were in the same club, and started dating shortly after we met. I don't think either of us even knew what ddlg was for a couple of years, but when we found out it's existence, we said "oh shoot that sounds familiar". Really it wasn't luck that he was a DD and I was a little, but more like "oh wow there's a word for our relationship, and we're not just weird!"

[Spooky]

We were good friends in high school, drifted after graduation and got together a few years ago. 
We had the tendencies of the dynamic but found a label for it about a year ago!

[LittleBett]

Oh the stories you  all write are so cute *n* . I still do not meet my caregiver ;-; .

Edited April 23, 2017 by LittleBett

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

I met my caregiver through a game via a mutual friend. I hated him. He didn't like me, lol.

[LittlePupRune]

Met mine in high school, started dating our last year in, and slowly realized we were more kinky than we thought. We started out more D/s then started exploring cg/l and figured out it worked for us.

[Little G]

We met on a game called PIMD, which has in it, clubs you can join, and he added me as a friend. At first, I rejected the friend request because I only accept people I know, but the next day I got another request from him, so I added him. He started talking to me and for the next month (I was on school holidays{we met when I was 16}, and he was stuck in bedrest because of an injury.) we spoke non-stop and eventually we started sexting and one day he asked me to call him "Daddy" (even though he didn't know what DDlg was) and I discovered CGL, and DDlg and talked with him about it. And now I'm happily a Little and I love it.

[Sparklefrosting]

We met at work I was a float supervisor (I couldn't give raises or execute disciplinary action) and he was my trainee. I was assigned a project in another area and the person I was working with wasn't cutting it so I requested to have the guy I trained. We became really good friends and eventually started dating. 

[Guest HerDaddyDom]

So one day I joined in a Minecraft server, which I played a lot in and was really famous   

and it all happened really quickly, she immediately greeted me. I had seen her before that and talked to her

but nothing seriously, anyway I somehow knew this girl would someday mean the world to me.. I just knew it somewhere deep in me.

And so we started talking, I got her chat and we played together a lot! Soon after that, we started skyping and fell deeply in love

with each other. It all happened really quickly. We found out about the DDLG thing later, after we started dating, and since it

fits us a lot we both agreed to have it   and that's how I became a Daddy dom of the most amazing princess that came into my life.

We were far from each other, until before a few months, when we got together! 

Soon after that, I proposed to her..and we are engaged now. Yeah we are 18-19 but damn I love this girl. I want to be with her forever.

The date when I met her was 11th of April, we started dating on 17th June 2016, a few days

after her birthday!   I'm so happy it all happened.. We both had bad things happening at that time, so we basically saved each other. 

Edited April 27, 2017 by HersDaddyDom

[0hsmush]

My Daddy was the employee in charge of training me at my first job, when I was 16. The manager told me to "follow him.around like a lost puppy", but never told me when to stop so I never did! Now we are married, 12 years later, and have always been into BDSM but just discovered DDLG about a year and a half ago!

[Daddy's Meg]

Way back in 1999... *dusty cough* AOL was the number one place to be on-line. There was a subculture of Role Players that played in a magical world called Rhydin. I was one of those players. My Daddy ran a guild, I applied. He IM'ed me that night and we basically never stopped talking. We role played and eventually started an on-line relationship.

 

2000 he came to visit me for the first time and we became officially an item.  Though I wouldn't say we were ever "vanilla" people, we grew into more and more kink as the years passed. Back then (far as we knew) the term DD/lg didn't exist. I knew about ADBL (which I am not) but had never heard the term "little." We just assumed that was part of my submissive side. Around 2007 I found a "DD/l" subculture on Livejournal. I was surprised and super pleased to discover that the lifestyle we had been living, actually had a community. It was comforting!

 

We were in a LDR until 2009 when he was able to move to OH from TX. The rest is basically history.