lifeasalittle Posted May 5, 2017 Report Share Posted May 5, 2017 Backstory: My daddy and I have been together for almost 8 months. I love him with all my heart. That being said, we've never met face to face; It's an ldr. I'm 18 and he's 20. I've been planning on flying out to him (other side of the country!) for a while now. I kind of figured since I'm an adult I would be going alone to meet him. Have you ever watched those ldr first meetings where the couple runs towards each other at the airport and kisses? I won't have that experience. Because my mother wants to go with me... I'm kind of in between a rock and a hard place. She let's me live with her, she's buying my car, she supports my hobbies, etc. And along with that, this is kind of scary. I trust my daddy completely but if I put myself in her shoes, I can see where she's coming from. And maybe having her there would make me feel less anxious. She's agreed to let me have my space and I told her I'll be with him most of the time. She has also said she'd buy my plane ticket and pay for the hotel which is very generous. Yet at the same time, I get a little creeped out at the thought of my mom being there. I'm a very reserved person and I hate letting anyone know about my emotions and relationship (no shame, I'm just private). So how do I prevent myself from calling him "daddy" in front of her? What if they don't get along (both have very dominant personalities)? What if he thinks I'm weird for having my mom with me? How do I act like myself in front of two people who know two very different sides of me? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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