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How to explain the difference between lifestyle and age play?


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Hi, I have met a guy on Fetlife who is very nice.  We have been talking and he has said "I don't know what you mean by lifestyle".  He has two ldr 'daughters' he calls them, but they only really do it for a weekend a few times a year and they still call him Daddy.

 

I'm a babygirl/little who lives the lifestyle  ie. still needing my Daddies emotional support during the times I am doing all my adult stuff.

 

How do I explain it?

 

Thanks

 

Kitten

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That is a bit complicated.

I was the biggest thing is explaining that it's 24/7 for you, and that you have "little space," where you will revert to genuinely being childlike (if that is the case).

As well as explaining from a relationship you need someone who can be there for you more than most relationships, and that you are dependent.

And do your very best to explain your little side, and explain how important is to you.

 

I hope I can be at least somewhat helpful ^^
Also welcome to the forums, and feel free to make an introduction thread if you plan on sticking around ^^

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I feel like you shouldn't have to... lots of people live a D/s lifestyle 24/7 and if he's on fetlife then he should know that unless he's REALLY new to the scene. Sounds to me like he's putting you on and he's only interested in D/s in the bedroom. Or maybe I'm not fully understanding something?
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I feel like you shouldn't have to... lots of people live a D/s lifestyle 24/7 and if he's on fetlife then he should know that unless he's REALLY new to the scene. Sounds to me like he's putting you on and he's only interested in D/s in the bedroom. Or maybe I'm not fully understanding something?

 

That's an interesting way of putting it. I was originally going to point out that perhaps he hasn't heard of it but OP actually said that he didn't know what she meant by lifestyle. So either he's really new and just using titles (in which education could just be a "the more you know" moment), or he's just looking for a fling.

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I have come across a lot of individuals on fetlife (and some other sites) that are only there for one thing, which normally involves one-offs and bits on the side with what they think are people who are looking for the same. Which is fine, if thats what you are looking for, but if what you need is something with more substance then you need to look for exactly that. If someone does not understand "lifestyle" then they are most likely not looking for it.
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http://daddys-doll.blogspot.ca/2014/03/the-difference-between-ddlg-and-ageplay.html

 

DDlgdoodles explains it really well here. :3 Maybe link that too them, and just give your own personal input. 

 

I like DDLg, but age play isn't my cup of tea. Its adorable from far away, and I like that other people are into it. but its not my thing, and I wouldn't see myself doing age play. 

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