How do I find a daddy?

[Guest Little_baby_boy]

I've been a little for a few years now and I've never had a daddy or mommy and I want one so badly! Any suggestions for how to go about it? Thanks you for the help!! Ps I'm a little boy.

[FLdaddy]

Ok. The advice I give to everyone looking for a daddy, mommy or whatever you want to call them is simple. You have already taken the biggest and hardest step! Putting yourself out here for all to see. So check that one off your list lol.

 

The next thing is to either wait for replays, or go and look at other personals and do the replying. Once you have sent out a few messages and friend request to some that caught your eye, now is the time to talk and get to know them. Notice I say them! No its not a bad thing to talk to different people while you are looking! This is where you pay attention to the way they speak an act towards certain things.

 

For example, do they truly try to get to know you or are they barking out order's and wanting you to call them this or that? Do they seem like they are only in it for the sexual side of things? They say you can't judge a book by its cover but if they come at you asking for nudes or wanting you to do things of an adult nature you can see they are sexually driven! Not saying that is bad, but come on! Give it some time before you do that!

 

I have met a beautiful young princess off her and her daddy, (just started today) out of no where called her his cock sucking slave! Last time I checked the ddlg dynamic did not have slaves! Not saying there are not slaves with little tendencies, but wow! That was fast lol. I was reading through some other profiles and found a daddy that said " if you are a platonic little you are not in the ddlg dynamic. You are a child!" See these are the things you need to watch out for.

 

So please take your time to get to know someone! This is real life and not Facebook! Leave your instant gratification somewhere else. Actually socialize and get to the inner core of the person you may want to call daddy. I'm sure everyone on here has seen the piston how to spot a fake daddy! Guess what so have they. They are getting smarter all the time! That is why it is so important to go slow!

 

Once you have narrowed the field down to two potential partners, this is where the hard choice will come into play. If they have made it this far in your life then they must be pretty awesome! So now the final cut lol! (Unless you and they are poly!) The reason this is a hard choice is you are the one whom has to live with the everything that follows from it.

 

Ok I'm off my soap box now lol! I hope this helps you and who ever reads it! Good luck to you all!

[Guest Prat]

FLdaddy is right. That being said, try the personals section and try make your own,it will help a ton.

[Abstraction]

This is a great site and super friendly and supportive. I don't believe I've seen many, if any, gay daddies here. There are some mommies, but I think there aren't enough for the littles who want mommies. So, post here, join fetlife, get involved in your local fetish scene. There might be gay sites that can also help boys find daddies, I don't know.