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I always love hearing stories about this!!

 

How did you/your daddy/mommy ask to be your Daddy/Mommy??

 

My current Daddy made me ask him!!

 

We were talking on Skype and he asked me if I found anyone whom I wanted to be my Daddy. I said yes and he said I should ask them! I told him I'd get too embarrassed and shy to do it. So he told me that I should draw/color a picture representing that I wanted that person to be my daddy.

Some time later I showed him a picture of hello kitty and her boyfriend that I colored and I put the words "elle" under hello kitty and Daddys name under hello kitty's boyfriend and Daddy asked me something along the lines of "so you want me to be your daddy?" And bam done :3

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After like a few weeks of us being sex buddies, I ended up asking my Daddy if I could be his.  I asked him while we were cuddling. I already was sleeping with him and being at his house, but we made it official we were together compare to being sleepin' buddies. 

 

>.< I got really shy and silly when he asked me to try calling him Daddy. The struggle was so real! 

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I don't actually remember... he asked me to be his boyfriend when we were at the mall, eating sushi. 

 

Then, when we actually began to bound our BDSM relationship in 2013, he said I was allowed to call him "Daddy" and he calls me "baby"; so with that, my ageplay fetish and my little side became even stronger. And now that he accepts it, I'm happier than ever! As sub, little and girlfriend! 

 

:wub:  :wub:

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My Daddy and I have been together for two years, he and I had tried a D/s relationship before, but he didn't quite like it. He's more nurturing and I'm very childlike so we decided to just be vanilla, well, with some kinks. Then one day I stumbled up DDlg and realized that it was very similar to the dynamic of our relationship, I did some research and when he came home that night I told him about it and how I wanted to try it. He listened very carefully and agreed! So now I have the most wonderfullest, bestest, perfectest Daddy in the whole wide world!

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I think I probably kinda asked Daddy but it was never anything serious. I may have mentioned my interest in DD/lg and admitted that sometimes I had an urge to call him Daddy and he just was really unphassd by it while I explained that it was just cuz I felt comfy with him and it didn't have to be sexual (I had mistaken guys being unreacting as him being weirded out) and when I finished babbling he was like, "I'd be perfectly fine with you calling me daddy and trying this out with you" and bam, your princessa mariposa was born =P
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My husband and I had been in a mild bdsm sort of relationship for a while. Then one day he noticed that I'd been complaining about not having any caregivers or meeting a bunch of bad caregivers and he was like "Why don't you ask me to do that?"

 

And I was like "what? you'd be interested. whoa." and I was really taken back for like five minutes because I'd never been given the opportunity to have something I wanted so close to home.

 

So we started arranging a D/S relationship around DDLG and it's worked out for a while now.

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My Daddy was my boyfriend first. He knew that I was a little, was very accepting of it, but we really hadn't discussed the dynamic between the two of us.

Then, we were having a sexy time and I accidentally cried out, "Daddy!" I was so embarrassed, but he was so happy and excited and wanted me to be aware that he was fully on board for being my Daddy if I wanted him to!

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Guest baileyanne94

This only recently happened to me! I'm not really sure how I discovered DD/lg, I think it was tumblr indirectly. I've always been really into being treated aggressively/controlled by a man sexually so that probably caught my attention (I also realized I have many 'little' aspects that were already present in our relationship that he was used to and thought was cute) and I started to research it the whole weekend following that (I still have so much to learn!). I became very interested and have called my Daddy, Daddy before, but just to make things exciting and he always liked it. As sweet and gentle as he is I know he has a more aggressive and 'power hungry' side deep down ;) I wanted to talk to him about DD/lg but felt I'd be shy or all over the place, so I actually made a really cute PowerPoint explaining things to him kinda briefly then on the last side I asked 'Will You Be My Daddy? :)'

We've been best friends for 7 years and are high school sweethearts/have been together 4 years. He's my world and I'm so excited to explore this with him. We're getting our first place together soon so I can't wait for what wonders that'll do for us. :) So far we both love it, I'm so glad.

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We'd been dating for a few months and engaged in a BDSM relationship. I called him Sir as a default but it never felt right because my little side was growing (in secret of course) so one night I asked what he'd like me to call him. He said he didn't care. So I asked if I could call him Daddy and he said sure, if that's what made me happy. A year later now and I can't imagine calling him anything else.

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At first me and my daddy were little friends and talked a lot. I was always curious about if he had a baby girl with him being a switch and all. He said no. One day he asked me if I wanted to do a trial where I would be his baby girl for a month and I agreed to it because I really liked him. One the last day we skyped and he asked me and when I said yes, his face lit up like a cherry! It was the cutest thing in the world! ^^

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I sort of hinted around the idea to my partner that I was interested in the D/s dynamic for a while but I was too shy to ask him and then on a few occasions he said it was okay for me to call him Daddy. I wasn't sure about it at first then it started to grow on me and I started calling him Daddy then we went out and bought paci's and I became his baby girl :3

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Papa and I had met on this app and were talking for some time. My last D/s relationship was ending and Papa just popped into my life at the right time. Once my previous relationship was over a couple week after, Papa asked if he told me to do something would I do it. I asked in what manner and he said Dom, by then our friendship had bloomed into light flirting, so I said yes. A few days later we got to talking and had a very serious conversation about taking our friendship to the next level. we both agreed and I started to call him Sir. By the end of our conversation he said I was allowed to call him what I really wanted to call him. I got teary eyed and said Yes Daddy. Its been amazing and growing ever since.
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Well it all happened when I made a joke and said I'd start calling him natty daddy because of the candy at this point I didn't think to much about it till I saw the look on his face and he asked me to repeat myself and I did of course. He kinda brushed it off and smiled a little while later he eventually told me about his abdl fetish and how awhile back he thought I was calling him daddy not 'natty daddy' and that it had been on his mind ever since then. Of course I was a bit taken back by the whole he wants me to call him daddy thing at first but I gave it sometime when I finally called him daddy I was all blushy and stuttering. Aw it was so cute
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My daddy and I had been in a relationship for about 8 months or so, it wasn't until month 4 maybe, he started becoming more dominant and then I told him I like it then we got into bdsm. When we would look at stuff and see ddlg stuff he seemed put off by it and other things, so I never progressed further with it and kind of hid myself (not good :c ). Then one of the things he thought was weird, he ended up saying 'let's try it' and ended up loving it. So that made him less judge-y about things he hasn't tried. I honestly can't remember how it happened. He basically asked me to call him daddy and I was super shy and embarrassed and nervous, then he got dominant about it so then I did and he really liked it and so did I, then we looked more into ddlg and are still figuring it out c: this site has helped a lot though because it's kind of pushed me to be myself. He read my venting post and then we talked more and now he's really happy that I'm being more myself and things are changing a bit and for the enjoyment of both of us! ^-^

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Hm, well, papa bear always doted upon me and was very protective from the get go. He's just a natural nurturer. Taking care of me was just an understood element between us but one day, (he was patting my back as he usually does when I have an upset tummy) and he mentioned that I was 'like a little baby.' He said it in a loving tone and up until that point he always teasingly referred to me as 'his little girl' but I could tell there was particular warmth in this admission. I smiled to myself, and tried incorporating more childish antics into my daily behaviors. Then one day we were watching our bear wildlife show together as we do every Saturday morning and he called me his 'baby bear.' I replied that he was 'papa bear' then, and it stuck! He's been the papa bear ever since. He always exemplified the characteristics of one but once I officially started calling him that, he warmed up more and more into his role until one day I embarrassingly asked him if he liked being a papa bear and he replied - "That he wouldn't want to be anything else. It gives him a purpose." And I knew that he truly understood the dynamic without words or any trite outlaying of parameters. We just fit together like two puzzle pieces I guess.  :wub:

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My Daddy and I have been together for two years, he and I had tried a D/s relationship before, but he didn't quite like it. He's more nurturing and I'm very childlike so we decided to just be vanilla, well, with some kinks. Then one day I stumbled up DDlg and realized that it was very similar to the dynamic of our relationship, I did some research and when he came home that night I told him about it and how I wanted to try it. He listened very carefully and agreed! So now I have the most wonderfullest, bestest, perfectest Daddy in the whole wide world!

This is exactly what happened to us! I feel very submissive and he likes the idea of being dominant, but he doesn't like discipline/hurting me and wanted to be more nurturing- then I found this and we both feel much better!! (I know many of you still utilize discipline, but physical reprimanding doesn't seem to work for us.)

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Because of how right everything felt the first night we met, I asked him if I could call him Daddy for the weekend because Sir/Master didn't fit as he had another slave at that point (yay polyamory). He officially asked to be my Daddy as I was on the bus going from the place my friend dropped me off after the convention we all were just at to my house. He asked to be my Master two weeks before I was suppose to go spend Thanksgiving with him after I met him and his coworkers in NYC for lunch. We've been together for almost three years and engaged for the same. :] 

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Daddy and I started off vanilla but I quickly realized I quite liked being dominated. I told him and we started exploring D/s, which we liked but it didn't feel completely right yet. While we were a year in our relationship and long distance, I stumbled upon DD/lg on tumblr and realized that this was it. I had always felt childlike and while he was dominate he was also caring, sweet, and a big goofball. But I was super scared of telling him because I thought he might think it was weird. I spent an entire month whispering "Daddy" before I went to sleep, giggling and trying to find the courage to tell him. When I did he was so open to it and we've been exploring it ever since!  :wub:

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Well my Daddy and I got together before we knew about the who DD/LG community. But we met through a mutual friend and we had known each other for a while (but honestly, I could not remember his name for the life of me!). Through that friend, he kinda confessed his feelings for me so I was like, "He's cute maybe I should go for him." We talked for a week. It took me a day to figure out I liked him. A Lot. It took me two more to finally decide that I should in fact date him (keep in mind that he been asking me on a date nonstop that whole week). Then another two days to finally say yes. We feel in love quickly. Then me calling him Daddy just kinda happened. I don't know really. It was something I grew into after I found this community and became more and more interested in it. He loves it and I love it too!

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In my experience there was no asking to be daddy it just sort of occurred naturally over the course of these past few months.

 

I have been dating my girl for the past 10 years since 2005.we live together. For the first year or so the physical love making was amazing. (To note we have been in a vanilla relationship until recently) after that inital year or so things trailed off. She lost her insurance and lost her birth control she was on it for other medical reasons. She has the endodemtriosis that causes cysts on her ovaries and makes her princess parts painful etc. So when we couldnt have sex because it hurt her I chalked it up to her medical problems. But recently I have been made aware that it wasnt always the medical problems. She also had trust issues that made it difficult to relax and try to enjoy sex which is why it would get painful. Trust issues from past abusive boyfriends as well as things I did about 3 years into the relationship when the dry spell was in full swing. Lack of sex made me feel unappreciated and unwanted and I went online to fill the void and flirt with women online and posted pictures on am ameture website..not out of desire to cheat but simply I wanted praise and acknowledgement...Ive came to realize that was emotional cheating. Ive spent the last 7 years trying to make up for it.

 

Also some other tensions in our relationship is I have a huge footfetish. And she thinks its "gross" she lets me paint her toes and massage her feet but I always want to do more I.E. I would really like to recieve a footjob. So my fetish usually causes tension when I would bring it up. As well as Ive always wanted to try anal. And the few times we did over the years it hurt cuz she wasnt into it and couldnt relax for it.

 

Anyway, that describes our relationship from about 2-3years in up until recently the past 3 months or so.

 

How I came about being her daddy was one night I was joking about wanting to try spanking. I had came across an article talking about erotic spanking and how some women really enjoy it and it turns them on. I spent 2 weeks talking to her about it and doing research on how to do it safely.

 

One night she let me. And really enjoyed it and we were able to have the best sex in a long time. We researched more about bdsm and light bondage...and we found in addition to spanking if we blindfolded and tied her up she was able to relax and let go and actually be able to enjoy sex again. I have been able to give her orgasms again that I havent been able to in years. Also she was able to relax and enjoy anal. Now she really likes it. (Still havent got that footjob though lol)

 

One night during our scenes it slipped out...she started calling me daddy and I really liked it. We started doing research and came across the DD/lg dynamic and it sort of just clicked from there. She admitted she felt she had a,little inside her. She enjoys coloring and play-doh etc. And being taken care of. And I,enjoy having someone to take care of. And with the dynamic and the kink it has actually helped us grow closer. So much so that I mentioned in a previous post that we have purchased an engagement ring.

 

And that is how I became her daddy and ahe is my beautiful bbw Princess. I just wish we could have found this out years ago...but things happen in their own time for its own reasons.

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My Daddy had just got in from his Offshore Job and he wanted to know if I wanted to have a Frozen Yogurt Date ( I never turn down Frozen yogurt!). We got out frozen yogurt to go and we went across the street to the park. There we sat next to pond and cuddled and ate our frozen yogurt. After we were finished and we talked for a little bit, he asked me if i wanted to be he little girl. Then I said almost immediately and gave him a big kiss. haha. Daddy and i have been together since November of last year. 

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Cute story Dani, and cute pics on your fet ;) heh. I always like checking out the other profile listings people put up. I hope you don't mind I <3'd a few. November of last year. So now is may so 6 months! Happy 6months! Heres to another 6 months! And another! And another after that! Cheers!
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