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Being a little as well as a Platonic Mummy


littlemisty

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As the title really. I have been a Little for a few years now and have recently, very naturally I should add, become a Platonic LD Mummy. Does that happen lol. I never thought of myself as a Mummy but with this sweet baby boy it has just/.... happend and im still a bit confused and would like a little bit of advice and help if possible. Thank you in advance

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Guest gentille_dove

sounds like you’re a switch !! : ) it’s nothing to feel strange about really, just another aspect of who you are. you’re just a person who can move back and forth between a mummy and little, totally normal. it’s nice to hear you’re discovering this new part of yourself ! 

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There is nothing wrong with being a switch, just be sure that your roles are defined with your CG/Daddy up front so that there is no confusion/feelings of confusion.  I feel like a broken record, but communication, communication, communication.

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Thank you both. My little is also a Daddy so a Switch as well. I never thought I was a Switch until I started to talk to him and it just happend as i felt a soft spot for him. My Daddy is totally fine with it and I am a Little more than a Mummy. i made sure though that my Littles Little was 100% fine with it as well.

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I do not consider myself a mommy at all, but I do take on the roll of caregiver with a little/kitten friend of mine and her Daddy, who is also a switch. It's not weird at all. As a matter of fact, I love seeing all these littles taking on the roll of caregiver for lonely littles and dom/switches. It shows that we are all here for each other :)
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I think I'm part switch too though I haven't had much experience, I noticed it with my last mommy that my dom side came out a little, I would like to try being a caregiver but I feel I would have to be very comfortable with the person first, my shyness gets in the way a lot!

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I think it's important for ppl to know that service subs do exist. A sub can provide service in various ways; could be cleaning, sex, handling financial books, or providing care. Can be anything. Some service subs only do 1 thing while some do many. It is important to look at what is a sub, and what is a Dom in its purest forms. A sub is happy to be pleasing to another, to hand over power to another, and to be guided by another. The other persons desires comes first. A Dom on the  other hand, is someone who loves to BE pleased, finds joy in being in control, and loves to guide another because it makes them happy. It is all about intentions, pleasing, or being pleased to simplify it. So if u are being a 'Big' to another because it pleases u to please them, because it satisfies them, because they need it....then it is an act of a service as sub. On another note, if being in control of them and being pleased by them is what fuels u, because it pleases YOU, then that is a Dom/me. So if u indeed love being a Big, being in control comes naturally, and it pleases u....then yeah u are a switch. If not and it's more about doing it 'for them' or to 'please them' then it is an act of service as a sub. It can be hard to explain, and I know many switches who later understand they are just a service sub (which is great). Either way, to answer ur question, yes it exists! And yes it is ok. Have fun exploring this new side of u and enjoy ur journey :)

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