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my daddy is getting distant and im scared


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hi kiddos i have a question.

have any of your cg's ever been kinda distant? me and my daddy have been together for a little bit over a year and lately he hasn't been texting or calling me as much. when i talked to him about it today, he just said he wanted me to be with him 24/7 so he could talk to me in person. we aren't in an ldr but i live about 30 min away from him for a bit and i cant visit for about a month. has this happened with anyone else?

I'm scared I'm gonna lose my daddy :( I'm really anious so maybe its just my anxiety

i dunno maybe I'm overreacting.

all advice appreciated

thankies

 

 

update: i might get to see him sometime this week and i hope it helps

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If I had a little girl I might be sad if I couldn't visit for like a month, I would go through withdrawl with no cuddles, it might have nothing to do with you too, keep communicating so you can find out, give your cg some space if they need it but let them know you're still there, I would feel happy if I received drawing or cute kissy texts.  In the past I've had a tendency to push my CG away if I was having a hard time bringing up an issue but I fight against that and know communication is better, though I have a tendency to avoid problems which is unhealthy.

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If I had a little girl I might be sad if I couldn't visit for like a month, I would go through withdrawl with no cuddles, it might have nothing to do with you too, keep communicating so you can find out, give your cg some space if they need it but let them know you're still there, I would feel happy if I received drawing or cute kissy texts.  In the past I've had a tendency to push my CG away if I was having a hard time bringing up an issue but I fight against that and know communication is better, though I have a tendency to avoid problems which is unhealthy.

 

my thing is, i know its hard to not see eachother for a month but i don't understand how distancing will make it better. i miss my daddy so much and i want him to call and skype and just be here but he always says he is 'too busy' even though i know he is just playing video games. it makes me very sad and i feel really alone

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You muster every little ounce of strength for you're Daddy.

 

It's okay to be scared! Just tell him you miss his voice, his laugh.

 

Let Daddy know you're thinking of him too. He may feel down about distance, so stay upbeat for him! It'll all work out!

 

You can do dis! :)

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