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Feeling really alone, young, and inexperienced


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So I'm a little young, since I'm coming from high school and going to college next year, but I know I want this life style. I'm finding it really hard to find people close to my age who are interested in this type of relationship. I was wondering if anybody had some advice to find people who are okay with this type of relationship and someone to talk to about it. Thanks I appreciate it (o^^o).
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I'm only 19, you're welcome to add me as a friend if you want to talk!ヽ(○´∀`)ノ♪

 

As far as finding a CG goes, I guess a lot of it depends on if you want LDR or not. If you're fine with LDR, then you could look around on the internet (dating sites, other forums, etc.), or post an ad in the "Personals" section. If you don't want LDR, then I guess your best bet is to look for some person at school.

 

My SO and I met in our highschool, and our relationship just took on aspects of ddlg naturally. He'd tuck me in at night with my stuffies, tell me stories, tickle fights, kiss my owies, etc. We didn't know what ddlg was until we looked into it and said "oh hey we do that???".

 

I guess what I'm trying to say is that even if someone doesn't identify as a CG or a little, they still can have the characteristics of one. If you look around in school for a good potential partner, and then find they have a very strong and caring personality, you could just introduce them to it! If you think they'll freak out by the idea of a label, you don't need one. Unless they're already familiar with ddlg, they'll probably just think you're childish (they won't think that you're in a sub-category of bdsm).

 

Of course don't force anyone to take on a roll they're uncomfortable with, but if you have a partner who shows some promising CG aspects, then you can probably make it work!

 

Again, if you want to talk feel free to message me! 

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There are lots of 18 and 19 year olds on this site. I would sugest making an add in the personals section. I have seen a few posts that are meant to find friends and not a daddy/mommy. So thats one way to go too.
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Hi and welcome to this site. Hopefully this site is full with likeminded people who are patient and kind. Some have lots of experience and some don't but their heart and intentions should be in the right place.

 

A little about me. I've been into this for aboutb15 years. During this time I have been fortunate to have met lots of lovely subs and littles. Some of which have self esteem issues, lack of self confidence etc. So you are not alone. I have been fortunate also to have helped many people I. Raising their confidence and body image amongst other problems and they had.

 

I've sent you a friend request. If you would like to discuss this in further or need a friendly and knowledgeable face.

Wishing you all the best in your search if not

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Heya I totally understand how freaky it all is. I'm in the same position. I'm always open if you want to chat. Luckily there's loads of us who are 18/19 and only very new to ddlg. 

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I was young when I first started exploring this stuff and I'm pretty young now (both me and my daddy are 21) so I get where you're coming from :) Just do what feels right and safe for you and stay wary of creeps, and you'll be fine
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