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Mintea

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So recently, after confessing my love to someone I was seeing for 8 months did I realize, after some digging/research that I fit into the whole ddlg thing. 
I've had the worst week trying not do anything dumb. 
But laying here in my bed with my teddy, crying, seems to be about the only productive thing I can manage to do. :c 

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I'm not sure I entirely understand what went wrong. But I'm assuming you told him you're a little and it didn't go over well.

If that's the case, the best thing you can do is try to calmly talk about it and explain it. If that doesn't work, you have to decide what's more worth it, being a little or having that relationship. If you need to be little to be happy it wouldn't have worked anyways.

While it hurts now, things always get better. You'll learn more about yourself. It just takes time.

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I'm not sure I entirely understand what went wrong. But I'm assuming you told him you're a little and it didn't go over well.

If that's the case, the best thing you can do is try to calmly talk about it and explain it. If that doesn't work, you have to decide what's more worth it, being a little or having that relationship. If you need to be little to be happy it wouldn't have worked anyways.

While it hurts now, things always get better. You'll learn more about yourself. It just takes time.

I told him I loved him and he didn't feel the same and he didn't enjoy holding hands, or seeing me more than maybe once a week. I just realized how deprived I felt afterwards.

Edited by lilkandikid
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i'm really sorry that happened to you. i know how terrible it can feel not having your feelings reciprocated.

 

from what you've said, it doesn't seem like you two want the same things from your relationship. i would suggest talking to him and seeing if you're on the same page. if not, it might be time to move on.

 

most of all, remember it's okay to feel sad! let yourself feel that if you need to. focus on some self-love. treat yourself to stuffie cuddles and cartoons and coloring. and remember that this is a great community and there will always be someone here for you to talk to! c:

 

:heart: 

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