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PrincessMoses

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Is it bad to be Jealous of other littles? I mean, I know that I shouldn't be but I can't seem to help it! My best friend has the best daddy in the world and I see so many others saying that they are so happy! And I can't seem to keep a daddy longer than two months!! Is there something wrong with me...? :(

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Its a pretty normally human emotion so I am going to say you're completely normal for feeling that way!

 

Your forever Daddy is looking for you <3 Just be patient! Focus on being the best little you that you can be!

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Aww i think it is just like in the vanilla world. If ur bestie have a bf and all happy and u been single for awhile with no luck....it is the same situation. There is definitely nothing wrong with u! u just haven't found ur right match yet. Perhaps spend time doing some self-searching before pursuing something new that way you'll know exactly who u are (or a better idea), what u got to offer, and what you are looking for. Essentially making ur search easier. On the other hand, just like in the vanilla world, the right one often pops up when either u aren't looking, or simply at a better time in ur life.
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There is nothing wrong with you, and there is also nothing wrong with feeling a bit jealous at times. You probably just need to work on yourself for a little; to establish what it is you really want and need in a Daddy.  I'm not sure if this applies to you but when talking to a potential Daddy. Take things slow and make it very clear to them as to what you are looking for and listen to what they are looking for. Also keep in mind that dating a person and making them your Caregiver are two different things, and be careful of fake Caregivers.

 
Best of luck!  
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Doesn't make you bad for being jealous, but it is negative.  i am sure that the perfect Daddy for you is out there and it is much better to be pleased for your bestie having such a marvellous Daddy rather than being jealous of her and her Daddy.

 

Positiveness is more attractive than negativity.

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Being jealous is normal. To a degree. You just have to be happy for the people who have what you want and someday someone will notice you, too.

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Its a perfectly normal human emotion, youll just have to manage it. Some people feel more jealous than others and every now and then you get the rare person who doesn't feel it at all.

 

But you should be happy for your friend as well. Did you know the opposite of jealousy is compersion? https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/compersion

 

Try to feel compersion, if you can :)

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