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Me and my daddy are long distance and he acts more like a little than me he's always yelling at me and complaining he's mad at me rn for not knowing what he ate for dinner last night even though he didn't tell me so he's not talking to me idk what to do it's always like this and he says I'm messing up the relationship I'm too scared to leave because I have my faults and he always says no one else will love me I really don't know what to do anymore I don't even have friends to talk to because he took them all away and now it's too late to go back to them I really just could use someone to talk to
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Leave him immediately. You are in danger. Telling you that no one will love you is emotional abuse. do not listen to him! Stop talking to him. Block him on all your social media. Block his texts. Do not talk to him any longer. If he is willing to emotionally abuse you he can just as easily physically or sexually abuse you. 

 

You *are* lovable. You *are* special. You do *not* need him.

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Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾
Please leave it immediately. You do not deserve it, nobody deserves that kind of treatment. He is psychologically abusing you. A daddy should care and love and guide you always. He has no right to treat you like he does. Please take care of yourself and move away soon as possible from him. You deserve a daddy that you respect and take care of you with all his heart.

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Sometimes daddy's can act little, but into only 8n a cutesy way when playing.

 

Telling you no one else will love you is emotional abuse and a form of emotional blackmail. Taking your friends away is a huge red flag. No partner in any type of relationship should be doing that.

 

Leave. You will find someone where you both make each other happy.

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First, great big, huge hugs. Please, end this relationship immediately!! If he continues to contact you get a legal no contact order. If this is how he acts now and long distance it will only get worse and more abusive. Do not allow anyone to treat you like this, you are worth more and there are people out there who will love you and treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

 

I know it is a scary thing to leave when you are being abused and they have gotten in your head. You are not alone others have been through the same thing and you can break it off. I was in an abusive marriage and managed to get away. I'm going to friend you. Please, pm me at anytime if you need to talk to someone that completely understands.

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Everyone on here will agree with all of the above comments.

It's abusive, controlling and attempts at trying to isolate you.

Dynamic relationship or not, it's not acceptable. 

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He seems emotionally abusive. You should leave and there is someone out there that will absolutely be able to love you like he did... heck probably even more. 

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*hugs and holds* You need to get out of this. To reinforce everyone's point it's abuse. He even isolated you from your friends. That's a big no no baby girl.  You are not alone, you have us. We are her for you as friends and sisters. He's not acting as a little he's acting like  jerk. Gosh I want to send my Daddy to knock him out. Guys like him really make me mad.

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Just echoing what you have already heard, but this abuse, no questions. A caregiver acting little happens. A caregiver mad at you for something silly like that and telling you no one else will love you and isolating you from family and friends is a NO, NO, NO! Please get out and keep yourself safe. If you need someone to talk to, add me.
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Gosh I want to send my Daddy to knock him out.

I feel you on that, Daddy asked me what I was reading with such a mad face, so I read the origional post outloud to him and kitten and Daddy got SOO mad. Op isn't even his little and he is so protective.

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I feel you on that, Daddy asked me what I was reading with such a mad face, so I read the origional post outloud to him and kitten and Daddy got SOO mad. Op isn't even his little and he is so protective.

 My Daddy is the same way. And he would do it regardless of whether or not it was his little.

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You deserve so much better! There are nicer daddies out there, you don't have to be treated that way. I was in an abusive (in all ways) relationship, and I'll tell you something right now: the fact he's saying noone else will love you is because he's afraid. He knows other people will and he knows the only way to keep you is to blind you to that. The fact he's trying to scare you into staying with him that way just proves how wrong what he's saying is. 

 

I won't tell you to leave, because I know how hard it is (I stayed in that relationship for 7 months, 6 months after I found out he was abusive), but I will tell you that the longer you let him treat you that way, the harder it will be to leave and the longer it will take to get over it. 

 

*hugs* be strong! we're here for you!!

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