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How to Deal with Heartbreak?


LittleBabyBunny<3
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I fell in love with this daddy... but he didn't feel the same way and has moved on... I don't really want to get into the situation it makes me go into a breakdown.

 

This is the first time I have been in love in 6 years. He made me so happy all of the time, I was always smiling and felt butterflies in my tummy... I feel like I would do anything for him. Now I feel like my heart is broken. I haven't been able to sleep, I get maybe 2 or 3 hours a night. I can't eat, my tummy is so upset and I just can't seem to digest anything. I lost 3lbs so far... He is all I think about and what happened. I'm a mess. During the day, I can barely get through work without running to the bathroom and breaking down crying. I've cried constantly. I don't know what to do... I constantly have this stabbing pain in my heart... I've never felt like this before. I sometimes wonder how could someone not want someone who feels this strong about them...

 

I've thought about trying to move on but all I want is him... it wouldn't really be fair to another guy if all I can think about is someone else... I have no interest in anyone else. 

 

I really don't know what to do.. part of me has this hope that we'll be together someday... I don't know if that's silly.

 

Please don't say anything negative about him... he means the world to me and I don't want to hear anything mean about him :(

 

 

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This is something I am quite familiar with. It will take time, a lot of time and a lot of hurting. When it happened to be a little over a year ago it nearly destroyed me, I truly hope it does not get that bad for you. 

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This is something I am quite familiar with. It will take time, a lot of time and a lot of hurting. When it happened to be a little over a year ago it nearly destroyed me, I truly hope it does not get that bad for you. 

 

 

I'm so sorry to hear that :( I think it's destroyed me too... I don't feel like I can be the same again..

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I'm so sorry to hear that :( I think it's destroyed me too... I don't feel like I can be the same again..

In many ways you won't but I can promise you that it gets better months and months after

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Guest Bunnyfeet

for me telling my mommy how bad she hurt me and what i really felt inside helped me move on also talking to people who love and care about u 

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*Hugs and offers her plushie frog because her Teddy is her Daddies* I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I know how hard it is to fall in love with someone and not have your feelings reciprocated, and to lose your Daddy. It's going to take time baby girl lots and lots and lots of time. We are here for you. I am here for you. You can add me and tell me all about you and your Daddy as many times as you have to until you don't need to anymore.

 

I suggest that if he is still talking to you, that it will be better if you two stop talking no matter how much tit will hurt. Always having him around is like the knife constantly being dragged back and forth slowly. Not talking will allow you to heal. I also suggest that you surround yourself with family and friends. That helped me a lot.  Sometimes you might have questions, and getting feedback from other doms may help.

 

If guys start talking to you just remain on amiable terms and ask anybody who is knowledgeable about the life to be your protector and protect you baby girl. it's what you need right now.

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danidee:

 

I'm sorry to hear this. The best advice I can give is that "time heals all things" and keep your heart open.

 

I always say that "beauty is an act of discovery". For someone to see that special beauty that is you, they have to be observant and patient. In the hustle and bustle of daily life it is easy to pass over the rarest of treasures, a delicate flower growing where you least expected it to be.

 

So continue to be the beautiful treasure that you are. You will be appreciated for being you, even if you don't realize it.

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I'm so sorry to hear this -Hugs-

 

Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love, to only discover that for them, we are just for passing time while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or stranger! :)

Care for your little self, do what makes you happy, buy some new stuffies, watch some movies, get your nails done! Surround yourself with friends and family. Try and give yourself time to grieve! ^_^

 

I hope everything goes okay for you and I wish you happiness :heart:

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It took me some time to respond to this, needed a bit of a break from the site and some time alone to try to heal.

 

Oh my goodness you all are too sweet! Thank you for all of the love and support. I am following all of your advice and just taking it one day at a time. 

All of your kind and caring words are really helping me get by. 

 

Sending love to all of you :heart:  :heart:  :heart:

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Guest daddysbunnygirl

It's very hard at first but you'll get through it! I was the same way with my previous daddy, constant crying and pain in my chest it was the worst

i learned to love myself and do things that make me happy

i promise you you're not going to feel this way forever :)

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