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Best things in daddies??


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Guest Kittykat2342

I'm trying to find a daddy, but I don't really know what to look for.

 

What are some traits that you guys like in your daddies/mommies/caregivers

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Guest D͛r͛a͛g͛o͛n͛sP♡ptคгt®

I'd definitely have to say patience, kindness, and love! Those are the main qualities I try to look for.

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That ultimate feeling of having someone who will be there for you, no matter what emotions you are experiencing. That he isn't just here for when you're happy and little. But he will stay and be your rock when you're crying at 2am for no reason because you can't figure out your feelings. Or when you're so angry with life he becomes the calm you need to ground yourself. The man (or woman) who makes you finally realize there is one person out there you can let down all your guards. The one person you can allow yourself to be vulnerable in front of.

 

He is, more than anything, your best friend in the whole world. And knowing you are the exact same thing for him.

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My daddy is caring and kind and everything I could ever ask for!!

He's there for me when I am anxious, when I have nightmares in the middle of the night and his voice is something that always calms me down.

He is the one person I can be myself around because people have treated me badly and he made me realise how I deserve to be treated after all these years. 

My daddy protects me from both evil monsters in the night and people who are mean to me, and he always reminds me how much he loves me. 

I truly feel happy and comfortable with my daddy in a way that I have never been with anyone else, he knows everything there is to know about me and he makes me feel loved and cared for. He always encourages me to do things that would be good for me or things I've always wanted to do but have been too shy to do. He lets me be myself in every way even if I lack the confidence for it sometimes, he makes me do the things I've secretly always wanted to. 

I can't express all my favourite traits about my daddy because they are endless!! But when you truly find the perfect daddy, you will know. He, in every way, will be a perfect match, even if you have your differences. Communication is super important. 

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I've never had a daddy, but after getting to be friends with a couple, I'm starting to learn what I would like in one. Not sure if they're realistic traits/ habits, but these are a few things that my ideal daddy would have/ do:

 

Patience

A gentle voice (shouting scares me)

Strong arms (for hugs), or at least being a good hugger

Reading stories

Brushing hair

Pet names (instant littlespace trigger for me)

Doting, but not overly so (treats me like a special little girl, but not stifling)

Likes music (doesn't have to obsess over it, but cannot hate it/ dislike it, since it's everything to me)

Likes animals (Especially if he's willing to go to the zoo with me because I love zoos, if they treat their animals right. I also love birds of prey, so places with those are awesome!)

Intellectual (I love to study and learn so sharing what I've learned and learning from him would be awesome. If he'd be willing to go to the museum or planetarium with me, even better ^_^)

Protective (drunk people, shouting, loud wind, spiders, not a lot of things scare me, but I'd want him to protect me and make me feel safe from the ones that did)

Possessive? (Maybe, but not essential. Not super jealous, but making me feel like I belong makes me feel safe)

 

On a more sexual side, it's a bit more open-ended because I have many different tastes, and very few are things that must or must not be a part of it, so I don't know what to look for there.

 

All in all, I know I want someone who makes me feel loved and needed and protected and maybe spoiled (though I've never had many gifts so I dunno how I'd feel about that bit), but beyond that, and a few activities I'd love to do, not really sure.

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Waiting is the best thing. If a daddy cares about you he will be wiling to wait. This will give you time to sort things out. 

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I could list heaps! But I think one of the things that I like the most about my Daddy is that he is my rock, there have been times when he's been able to be strong for me when I can't be for myself. He's super patient with me when I'm shy or anxious and always gives me space but never lets me pull away. I've never truly felt insecure about us (big thing for me) because he lets me know I am cared for.

 

On a more fun note....we just click and have such great conversations. For me, it's like you find that person that just makes you want to be around them all the time and share things with, because it's better when you do. :)

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My Daddy is so wonderful in so many ways, it would be impossible to list all of his good qualities!

But here's a few ^.^

 

1. He protects me. Hes always protective, but even more so when I'm in little space. He always puts himself between me and the road, watches me if I decide I wanna cook while little (I get super clumsy) he asks if I've eaten and just takes good care of me.

 

2. He's willing to do little things with me, like color, and watch my little pony, and take long bubble baths. He even acts concerned about the peekaboo monster! (I'll peek around a corner at him and yell "peekaboo" and then hide again, the peekaboo monster wants cuddles and kisses) He loves it so much and really loves my little side.

 

3. He's super awesome at being a Daddy. I don't know how but he always seems to know when I'm in little space, even when I'm not talking, he can tell just by the way I walk and do things. My favorite thing is when he'll just hold me in his arms and kiss my forehead. It makes me feel so little.

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