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    #141 fushidarananeko

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    Posted 15 November 2020 - 12:57 AM

    Hi hi!

    I am turning 33 in about a month, and while I do feel like I am old...

    And sometimes struggle with my feelings of being little, 

    I feel like me being a mom makes me more out of place than being older. :(


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    #142 LittleNece

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    Posted 15 November 2020 - 09:25 PM

     

    Hi hi!

    I am turning 33 in about a month, and while I do feel like I am old...

    And sometimes struggle with my feelings of being little, 

    I feel like me being a mom makes me more out of place than being older. :(

     

    I am a little worried about that too. My youngest is a college senior and will be home for the holidays soon. I’ve just started allowing myself to let go and now I won’t be able to. Do you have a caregiver you can lean on during private times?


     

     


    #143 fushidarananeko

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    Posted 16 November 2020 - 02:13 AM

    I am a little worried about that too. My youngest is a college senior and will be home for the holidays soon. I’ve just started allowing myself to let go and now I won’t be able to. Do you have a caregiver you can lean on during private times?

    No, I don't have a caregiver, and I am the only one who cares for my daughter.

    So private time is a very rare thing for me.


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    #144 LittleNece

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    Posted 16 November 2020 - 06:41 AM

     

    No, I don't have a caregiver, and I am the only one who cares for my daughter.

    So private time is a very rare thing for me.

     

    I understand that. While my circumstances are different in that I am married, my husband is in Emergency Services and has always had the weird schedules so I did 90ish% of the parenting. It is possible to be with someone and still be lonely. I have always found my decompress time after everyone went to bed. I hope you can find some time yourself and I hope you find some comfort on the form!


     

     


    #145 Kitten_princesd

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    Posted 18 November 2020 - 11:44 AM

    Yes there should be a section for us older littles/middles..I don't particularly care for the drama of the young ones.

    #146 Kichōna

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    Posted 18 November 2020 - 01:08 PM

    Hello! i know I'm definitely not an older little but I want all of the older littles who come on to this topic to know that you are very inspiring! To be able to continue being who you are and doing what you love despite backlash from society and maybe even within the community is amazingly powerful. You manage to tackle an adult life while enjoying littlespace and that's something I really hope I am able to emulate the older I get. You are wise members of this community who I really look up to for advice not only about the community but in the outside world too! So please remember that you are all very special, unique and, most importantly, very cute. ^o^


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    #147 lilsmarty

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    Posted 23 November 2020 - 03:53 PM

    Just wanted to say hi to folks interested in this topic. I'm 53 and LOVING being a baby girl/middle/brat. Happy to talk to anyone interested in having community and fun conversation about DD/bg from this perspective! :)



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    Posted 25 November 2020 - 03:43 PM

    I am 43 year old married daddy, looking for a little to spend some time to get to know her. I feel that it’s super hard to find a little first my age and second because I am married (even when I say my wife knows and she is ok with it) it’s been a while I did not had any success

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    #149 Amber_dragon

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    Posted 25 November 2020 - 04:45 PM

    I am 43 year old married daddy, looking for a little to spend some time to get to know her. I feel that it’s super hard to find a little first my age and second because I am married (even when I say my wife knows and she is ok with it) it’s been a while I did not had any success

    It's great that you are open about that.  I'd be interested in chatting if you like, as long as at some point your wife confirms she's good with it. If I dabble with poly folks, I like to make sure their partners are cool too. :) 



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    Posted 25 November 2020 - 05:14 PM

    It's great that you are open about that.  I'd be interested in chatting if you like, as long as at some point your wife confirms she's good with it. If I dabble with poly folks, I like to make sure their partners are cool too. :)

    I just sent you friends request, and yes and down the road I can do the intro of both of you to each other




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