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Is there life after Little Space?


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Guest MCLOveDOlly

What happens when your first real DDlg relationship is over  :( and just didn't seem to work out, yet you know without a shadow of a doubt that's who you are....a Little. I don't mean to say that I don't love myself or am not capable, on the contrary, I've been told I am one of the strongest women some know. There are plenty of strong women out there, I am nothing special. However, in learning and researching the DDlg lifestyle I had become more and more intrigued, even needful of it. Part time ofc...I just fit there. I feel complete, safe, loved. In my world where everyone seems to depend on me, it's such a welcomed "decompressing". After my recent break up with my Daddy I was sure (or just angry) that I would just do without one ever again. This just isn't true, I LONG for it, it's become part of me. I don't have the emotional energy to search and I am not a very trusting person by nature. I wonder if I am doomed to a long sad life without a DD. If it's indeed better for me to just push those with all my other feelings down deep and lock my heart. Thank you for listening....I just needed the outlet. I wish blessings upon you all!  :wub:

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I think Littles can have a Blast even without CG ... Little life does not have to be sad even if alone, it can be awesome too. 

 

At one point in life energy comes back and you might find another person to trust and love.. I truly wish it for you. :) ..

 

Thanks for sharing!  

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You most definitely can be a happy little, with a little space, without having a caregiver - like MoMo said. I think perhaps when you're in the grief stages of a break up you get into the mindset of 'I'm going to be alone forever' etc. but that very rarely is the case. Also, you may just not be ready to search. But the time will come when you are ready, and perhaps you won't even know - you'll just find someone that makes you feel ready. It's not hopeless, just hang in there. Things get better.

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Guest ParanoidAsylum
There isn't much I can say that hasn't been already, so all I will say is that all things take time, and that you will have your day one day, I believe it.
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