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How old is to old for a little to find their Mommy or Daddy


Littlejacob
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As an older little I can say without a doubt that it's near impossible to find a Mommy or a Daddy that's wants me. It's very confusing as I'm shy but very kind and caring, I'm also a submissive and I would go out of my way to please my Mommy or Daddy. A Proud Parent is a happy one. So why is it that nobody wants us? When we get older we get tossed aside for younger models, the thinks and barely legal littles.mits down right rude and unfair, we devoted ourselves to you only to be replaced.

 

So explain it to us, why don't you want us anymore?

It's a strong bond that a big and little form and if done correctly will endure anything.

 

Like all older littles I only ask for an honest answer and maybe a Big to give me a chance, thats all,

 

Jacob

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Guest TenderhartMommy

You are never too old to be a little. Don't give up Jacob, their is someone out their for you, have you tried your local munch? 

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To be fair, when i went to munches, it was almost always couples, or people that were in some kind of relationship, even if that was a casual or play based one.

But to answer the question, my Daddy found and approached me at 46. That's my age, not His, lol.

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You're never too old! A lot of older Daddies prefer their own age, the younger little/older Daddy is just the stereotype but it's certainly not the only way to do it. 

 

 

 

 

Ps. I honestly don't trust anyone who is older and ONLY interested in the 'barely legal' littles. No offence to anyone, but I think it's creepy and makes it look like they like dd/lg for the wrong reasons. 

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Lavender I do realize that that's just your opinion and everyone has one, there kinda like..... well you know. I myself am 48 and have been in the lifestyle for 10+ years. I've had a handful of littles during this time. The longest being Skye who I was with for almost 3 years. Our age difference was 24 years apart. We had a great relationship. I figured I would never come close to finding that again. Then thanks to this site I met Chloe about 7 weeks ago. We hit it off instantly and became involved in a ldr. We've met once so far irl and things couldn't have gone any better. Our age difference is exactly 30 & 1/2 years apart. We see no problem with it whatsoever. We talk everyday on the phone and text and she has rules that she follows. When we met we even went out to eat all dressed up. She did look much younger than me, which she is, but also because of our differences in height (she's 5' and I'm 6'2") and how she was dressed and acted (like a total little the whole time) I could see where people may even have thought she was my daughter. In fact we had to wait for our reservations with others and she was acting like a total brat. She was all daddy daddy let's go, I don't wanna wait, daddy. So this older couple was looking at us and she was like daddy I have to go to the bathroom. I told her where it was and that she better have a complete attitude adjustment when she returned. So while she was gone the older gentlemen looked over and said "boy you've got your hands full with that one". To which I replied YOU HAVE NO IDEA. She gets back and gives me a big hug and says daddy I'm sorry then proceeded to give me a huge wet kiss. Well the older couple almost died as they didn't even make eye contact with us after that. We just laughed when we got to our table and enjoyed our meal along with the entire night. Just because you don't find or like something that two other people enjoy doesn't make it wrong or even creepy. To each their own in this lifestyle.
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For us, it is the aged 30 but everyone has they own age limit try changing your profile to be more for older seekers that will like you. 

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Guest littlebaby95

Tommybaww is my daddy and i love him so much, he is the best daddy ever, age is just a number it does not define who you are as a person and my daddy is 30 years older than me but i love him with all my heart and we have a fairytale something that doesn't happen often I love him so so much. I would not have out relationship any other way. My daddy is amazing and just because he is a lot older than me does not by any means he is not a good daddy. He is the best daddy ever and I am lucky to have him just because we have a age difference does not mean he is a bad daddy or is creepy because he is not at all. 

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Guest dadBADDY

As a 38yr old DADDY, the only age requirement I have is that my little is younger than me. It just feels right from where I stand. Ten months or ten years, it doesn't matter. Then again, I love surprises. And I wouldn't at all be disappointed if I fall for my little and she is older than me. It's the falling that matters. Rules are meant to be broken... and then punished:)

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I didn't find my daddy until I was 27. Don't give up hope. It can be frustrating seeing so many younger, cuter little in the community sometimes but try not to think of people as competition and just let things happen naturally.

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You have to search a lot harder the older you get on either end of the spectrum. I have had about 9 out of 10 Littles reject me outright due to being too old for them. I have also rejected for my own reasons. Though the bottom line is "love," and if nobody accepts you for you well in the end I will tell them all to get F'd. There is nobody that deserves you!

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My Daddy is a few years younger than I am.  Being a little has NOTHING to do with biological age.  Yes, a lot of them are with littles who are MUCH YOUNGER than they are (not my circus, not my monkeys, lol), but I don't want that anyway.  As an older person, I'm more established and wiser.  I'm not attracted to very young people.  I might go down to 30, probably more like 35 years old, in a special situation, but no lower.  I'm 44, I'm educated and established.  I like to be in relationships with people my age, a little younger or older than I am who are also educated and established.  I have to be able to have a relationship with the other person as a partner, not just a Daddy.  I'm not, nor will I ever be a 24/7 little constantly underneath someone's thumb (young people are easier for them to control and manipulate). Quite frankly, if someone has the mentality to get along with an 18 year old and they are 40, welllllll, like I said, not my circus not my monkeys. To each his/her own, but it's a little questionable.  A bit too literal. If that 18 year old was my son or daughter, I would NOT be happy.  

 

Anyway, you will find your Mommy or Daddy.  Just hang in there.  This is a kink that is trending in the younger generation so there's more of them currently in the scene.

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Also to mention, any area that requires a certain level of comfort with the Internet and online discourse will tend to be younger (younger by my standards is under 40 btw). We old folks can go online, of course, but we learned it later in life and many of us didn't learn it at all. :)
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As i read this thread i felt so sad, i dont think you are ever too old to find what you are looking for. While my little is 7 years yonger than me i would love her just as much if she were 20 years older than me, age shouldnt matter it is always about who you are for me at least.

I wish you much luck in finding your happiness.

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" As I read this thread I felt so sad " says GothicDaddy,well he is not entirely wrong. Hey guys,ddlg is somewhat out of the usual social norms anyway,so let happen what must happen. Let us not talk about age as if we were not the ones who know it is possible to answer the "how old are you" question by saying "I'm a daddy"

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<shrug> I'm older than mommy by 5 years according to my license, but she knows the truth - that I'm really only 2 - so it works for us.

 

There's no reason to give up, you've just got to make a connection with the right person. *hugs*

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Guest littlelisafrank

Unfortunately, thanks to things like Tumblr, there is a stereotype that has overtaken the community. In order for you to be a "true Little" (whatever that means) you must meet these requirements*:

1) be a woman,

2) be girly,

3) be young (18-25/27, maybe),

4) be heterosexual

5) be thin/petite/short.

6) like ____ (coloring, pacies, diapers, etc.)

...and so on and so forth.

I find it frustrating that a group full of so many awesome people from so many different backgrounds with so many different interests has been reduced to a very narrow stereotype that many of us don't/can't fulfill even if we wanted.

It doesn't help that the online DDlg community is often times a person's first exposure to the scene. It gives them a tiny slice of the DD/lg cake, but pretends it's the whole thing. It's just not a fair first impression about the community. I often wonder how many people haven't even explored their Little side, because they aren't being represented by the online community and feel like it's not for them. Also, I wonder how many Daddies/Mommies are having trouble finding Littles because the stereotype isn't what they're wanting in a Littles. Not to mention the stereotypes for Caregivers, too. It makes me sad.

 

I'm sorry if I'm ranting. I know this is kind of trailing off of what the original post was about, but this is just an issue that I feel strongly about and think needs to be addressed more.

 

I would suggest going to Little munches and Ageplay meet-ups near you if you haven't before. I've often heard that the offline community is very different, more diverse, than the online community. I'm sorry you feel like you won't find a Daddy/Mommy, and that you've been cast aside. I wish you the best. Don't give up!

 

*I'm not saying any of these things are bad. If you fit into any/all of these, I'm not bashing you at all. I fit into some of them, myself. You do you. I'm only trying to make a point that not everyone fits into this narrow image.

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Guys, you have me all wrong. Of course I didn't mean simply being an older Daddy with a young little is creepy in itself. There is nothing wrong with that, sometimes that's the way it works out in life.  I also know age gaps very common in this community because it can help reinforce a power dynamic. If you are in a legal age gap relationship and it works then that's great! I'm happy for you

 

What I meant was I find it creepy when an older man is newly looking for a little and says something like "I'm looking for a  little girl aged 18-19" and will not make an exception, this type is usually only after sex, nudes or sexual rp. These men seem to love younger girls for their age and nothing more. Hence why I said Daddies who "ONLY" chase the barely legal girls. Daddies who ONLY want a teenager.

 

This doesn't sound like it applies to you

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I think it usually depends on the personal connection and see if we share similiar interests. I want to find a Daddy who I can connect with and feel safe with.

 

Age is simply just a number.

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Age indeed is the number on a passport , driverslicence , ID and what not but does it represent the correct one, not always.  You always are who you are, being who you are is for some people super hard not even mentioning knowing or showing youself .

 

It breaks my heart to read the post of of LittleJacob,  it shouldnt matter what age size religion or colour you are. To bad the world small or big dosnt always work like that.

To often you see or hear littles being trade on for a younger model or tossed aside , and yes its disheartening and unfair by definition.

 

I sincere hope one day you find that one special person, as we all want.

You diserve it simply because you are you and that should be enough reason

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Yes, and all the Daddies and Mommies have younger littles, . It's disheartening

Keep your head up and don't give up. My Little is even 1.5 years older than me in real life and it took us over 40 years to find us, now we are living together and got engaded, so you see to every pot there is a lid (That's a translated German saying so I hope this makes sense :) )

 

Keeping my fingers crossed!

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