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I'm new to DDlg and triggering my little space is hard sometimes! I do know when I get sick I start to act small. I don't think Daddy minds.

I was wondering, could you guys please give me some ideas on things that *tend* to trigger little space?
How do you deal with little space in public?

Also what triggers you into little space?

 

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I'm jumping in and out of little space all day depending on what's going on. Things that trigger me are being in bed on tumblr with my stuffies nearby or just putting in my paci.

 

Otherwise when Daddy tickles me or baby talks to me or tells me to do things and be a good girl it puts me right back into little space.

 

As far as being in public sometimes I'll whisper something to daddy. My little voice sometimes slips out in public but it's alright because people who know me know I'm cutesy already. If we have a moment alone I'll slip into little talk and give cuddles and kisses.

 

Also at a friends drinking night he tucked me in while he continued hanging out and listening to my Daddy happy with his friends while I was snuggled up put me into little space too

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I'm jumping in and out of little space all day depending on what's going on.

This is true for me, as well.

 

I don't have a lot of "triggers" to go into little space. I feel often like I'm mostly in little space and am usually triggered out of little space.

 

That said, there are some times when I'm guaranteed to be in little space:

If I'm sick

If Mr starts being silly and goofy

 

I couldn't think of any others, so I asked Mr. He said, "Any time you don't want to do something."

Oh. :huh:

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This site makes me feel little! Being in the chat makes me feel so relaxed and tiny and it's such a good feeling! I also feel little when I feel vulnerable. Or when I have to leave Papa because that's just so hard for me. I can be completely big and then all of a sudden be a crying little girl because I have to leave him.

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Hm! Alrightly. Thank you everyone.

 

It's just a little hard to find out what triggers me I guess.  It's a learning thing. :3 I was just hoping for a cheat sheet of stuff I could try. Haha! :3 

 

 

This site makes me feel little! Being in the chat makes me feel so relaxed and tiny and it's such a good feeling! I also feel little when I feel vulnerable. Or when I have to leave Papa because that's just so hard for me. I can be completely big and then all of a sudden be a crying little girl because I have to leave him.

Chat for me seems like it's to fast now, and it feels like there different chatting going on.  -hugs- I'm glad chat is a good place for you though! That makes me so happy. :3 

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I think I'm going to start calling my little space princess space. :3 It seems like it fits better. Sae the neko princess! :D (I should change that to my name. Haha)

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Little space is a frame of mind for me. Even when I'm out doing adult things, I tend to look at the world as though I was a child.

 

Things that specifically make me feel very small are colorful video games (Nintendo has a good way of putting me back in little space), my paci, nice baby powdery type smells, being with my family, and being with my daddy.

 

Most important to it for me was simply associating my childhood with reality. How would I approach this back in the day (while also being careful to follow social norms).

 

Might also be the fact that I'm an AB and I'm diapered 24/7. That could help...

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I feel like most of the time I'm always in the little mindset.  It's more so what triggers being an adult for me if that makes sense?  Being an adult feels kinda like a chore to me... it's something I do when I need to and then as soon as I'm done I just immediately go back to feeling little.  But that doesn't mean that I'm instantly there, like I guess there's a gradient to how little I feel... sometimes I feel immersed in it, other times I feel like I'm only partially there.  For feeling partially there, I have random triggers that cause me to get immersed further in it... a few things that can really help me feel even littler, like oh idk..... eating macaroni and cheese, coloring, watching cartoons oh and stuffies!!! ... stuff like that.  But it's hard to say really.  I think for me it's more about just letting go of anything that caused me the need to try to be an adult, and then I'm just kinda able to be who I really am inside.  I'm not sure if that makes sense or was really confusing?

 

Anyway, as far as in public, that's kind of tough.  I'm usually always with my bf who is essentially my daddy (long story but I've just never called him that yet)..... and when we're around people I usually try to act more mature but sometimes I slip up.  I mean it's really hard if I'm particularly immersed in it prior to going somewhere.  I've had a few times where i talk all cutesy to him and make weird faces and then I'm like oh CRAP im at the store.... but I would imagine most people probably wouldn't notice.  I'm a bit torn on that though... lately I've kinda been feeling like i shouldn't care what random people think and still be myself when I'm out.  Usually what happens though is when we're out I take on the older part of my little personality which is maybe around nine years... because most of that is totally acceptable in public as opposed to say acting like a 4 year old.

 

Anyway sorry for such a long reply :/

 

 

I think I'm going to start calling my little space princess space. :3 It seems like it fits better. Sae the neko princess!  :D (I should change that to my name. Haha)

 
haha princess space that's awesome i want to call it that too.
 
 

Might also be the fact that I'm an AB and I'm diapered 24/7. That could help...

 

I'm incontinent so I'm always wearing them too.

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Little space is an all the time thing for me mostly.
But there are times where I'm not in little space and need to be triggered into it.
Daddy can sometimes bring me to little space by being authoritative, and Daddy like. Other times I usually can get my paci, sippy/bottle, blankie, stuffies, coloring books, or watch cartoons and be brought right back.
As for being out in public... I usually don't hide it if I'm in little space. I talk cutesy, use little versions of words, call my boyfriend "Daddy", etc and people don't care.
I've only ever had an incident when I forgot I drew on my leg "Daddy's Little Girl" in big pink and black letters with a doodle of Daddy and I.. and it was only two women looking at my leg and chuckling.
If with friends, well most of mine know about my little space so they really just think it's cute and just a me thing. x3

 

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I feel like most of the time I'm always in the little mindset.  It's more so what triggers being an adult for me if that makes sense?  Being an adult feels kinda like a chore to me... it's something I do when I need to and then as soon as I'm done I just immediately go back to feeling little.  But that doesn't mean that I'm instantly there, like I guess there's a gradient to how little I feel... sometimes I feel immersed in it, other times I feel like I'm only partially there.  For feeling partially there, I have random triggers that cause me to get immersed further in it... a few things that can really help me feel even littler, like oh idk..... eating macaroni and cheese, coloring, watching cartoons oh and stuffies!!! ... stuff like that.  But it's hard to say really.  I think for me it's more about just letting go of anything that caused me the need to try to be an adult, and then I'm just kinda able to be who I really am inside.  I'm not sure if that makes sense or was really confusing?

 

Anyway, as far as in public, that's kind of tough.  I'm usually always with my bf who is essentially my daddy (long story but I've just never called him that yet)..... and when we're around people I usually try to act more mature but sometimes I slip up.  I mean it's really hard if I'm particularly immersed in it prior to going somewhere.  I've had a few times where i talk all cutesy to him and make weird faces and then I'm like oh CRAP im at the store.... but I would imagine most people probably wouldn't notice.  I'm a bit torn on that though... lately I've kinda been feeling like i shouldn't care what random people think and still be myself when I'm out.  Usually what happens though is when we're out I take on the older part of my little personality which is maybe around nine years... because most of that is totally acceptable in public as opposed to say acting like a 4 year old.

 

Anyway sorry for such a long reply :/

 

 

 
haha princess space that's awesome i want to call it that too.
 
 
 

 

I'm incontinent so I'm always wearing them too.

 

 

Hmm, that's really interesting! :3 Thank you for sharing! 

 

Being an adult can be a chore, but I don't mind it. If you want to call it your princess space you can. I have no issues with that.

 

-huggles- Don't worry too much about other people I think. If your happy, your boyfriend is happy I think that's all that matters. Other people who care but aren't important to you shouldn't matter. <3 

 

Little space is an all the time thing for me mostly.

But there are times where I'm not in little space and need to be triggered into it.

Daddy can sometimes bring me to little space by being authoritative, and Daddy like. Other times I usually can get my paci, sippy/bottle, blankie, stuffies, coloring books, or watch cartoons and be brought right back.

As for being out in public... I usually don't hide it if I'm in little space. I talk cutesy, use little versions of words, call my boyfriend "Daddy", etc and people don't care.

I've only ever had an incident when I forgot I drew on my leg "Daddy's Little Girl" in big pink and black letters with a doodle of Daddy and I.. and it was only two women looking at my leg and chuckling.

If with friends, well most of mine know about my little space so they really just think it's cute and just a me thing. x3

 

:3 I'm going to see if Daddy can help me be triggered into little space a bit. He says he doesn't want to push me into it, and he does think it's something I should find myself. But maybe I can get help. 

Also your story is funny. I'm glad they weren't mean about it. :) 

I have one friend who knows I'm a little, and she's really accepting of it. :3 so I'm happy about that.  :3 

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I don't think I have many specific triggers, honestly. I'm more likely to just slip into little space without really knowing it. Being sick really makes me little, too.

Some things that I do notice are that cartoons will trigger little space and then just Daddy being affectionate and using his "baby talking" voice.

 

I've only ever been little in public a few times, and almost all were with Daddy. Most of them were in movies like Maleficent or Big Hero Six. Once was at the big Christmas light display in town and he let go of my hand for like 25 seconds to answer his phone or something and I got temporarily lost.  But once was when I went to see Beauty and the Beast on Tour with my best friend, and it was really hard to not act little during Be Our Guest or Tale As Old As Time. I just kinda dug my nails into my palms as a reminder. If I'm with Daddy and he's not in uniform and we're not around people we know, there's no problem with with me being little in public because we'll never see those people again.

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I bounce around, but since I'm a full-time Mom too, I usually only hit little space at night. 

 

I usually slip into it if I've had a hard day and need to relax. Colouring or watching children's movies/shows really triggers it for me. I rarely little out in public, though if I see something really cute (clothes, plushie, etc) I tend to squeal and need to reel it back in.

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I go straight into little space when I see my stuffies and I have my paci. When I'm at work its difficult not to freak out when I see customers buying diapers, pacifiers, bottles and cute stuffed animals. It's hard for me around easter because we have ginormous stuffies right by the entrance. There's bunnies of different colors and super long colorful catapillars are for 40 bucks. I get excited and extremely happy and to deal with me going into little space, I usually take deep breaths and avoid looking at the items and if I can I try to talk to the customers about a completely different topic.

Besides that I feel like I'm always in little space and that's just how I am but moderately. People often assume I'm the youngest out of my cousins because of how playful and silly I am as a person. ^_^

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I agree with what is being said on this forum about feeling more triggered into adult space. I see myself like I'm innately little but must live in parallel realities where I have to an adult. So as I go about my day as a human adult things that drive me back into what feels like my natural head space are things that get me excited! like clothes, yummy food, seeing friends,anything to do Master... really Im easily excited.
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I think I'm going to start calling my little space princess space. :3 It seems like it fits better. Sae the neko princess! :D (I should change that to my name. Haha)

I love this idea!!! I wanna call my little space that too!

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Little space is an all the time thing for me mostly.

But there are times where I'm not in little space and need to be triggered into it.

Daddy can sometimes bring me to little space by being authoritative, and Daddy like. Other times I usually can get my paci, sippy/bottle, blankie, stuffies, coloring books, or watch cartoons and be brought right back.

As for being out in public... I usually don't hide it if I'm in little space. I talk cutesy, use little versions of words, call my boyfriend "Daddy", etc and people don't care.

I've only ever had an incident when I forgot I drew on my leg "Daddy's Little Girl" in big pink and black letters with a doodle of Daddy and I.. and it was only two women looking at my leg and chuckling.

If with friends, well most of mine know about my little space so they really just think it's cute and just a me thing. x3

 

I wish I had friends who were either into it or okay with it. I have one friend who is a daddy but he and his little don't live close.... At all. Sometimes I think it would he more fun if there were more.

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I usually slip into little when playing games with Big dragon or i'm in trouble, definately when i'm in trouble. I don't have my own space tho maybe i should work on that.

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My Daddy usually triggers me into my little space by asking me for kisses, playing with my hair, and giving me my paci. When he's not around, I almost always have a little mindset because it makes me feel comfortable and less anxious :)

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I agree. It's tough for me to find my little space too but she it comes out I'm usually sleepy or I. Pain. Those things put me right into little apcs.
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My Daddy usually triggers me into my little space by asking me for kisses, playing with my hair, and giving me my paci. When he's not around, I almost always have a little mindset because it makes me feel comfortable and less anxious :)

I'm in little mindset when I'm alone too. It is a great way to cope with anxiety.

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I find that if someone is acting playfully, my Little will come out. Coloring and watching cartoons triggers it and Daddy also helps the Little to come out too.

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I'm kinda always little girly but I can say that I have gotten triggered big time twice while out by strangers.... once on a road trip with my daddy at a rests top and daddy was letting me run around getting out some pent up energy when suddenly a person asked me does she? I had no idea what they was talking about because I was already hyperactive and happy to in a pretty place and not in the car... I replied huh what... they pointed at my shirt and said does she again and I suddenly remembered that I hadn't changed my teas hit that I got to show daddy as a surprise... it said my inner child needs a spanking.... as I was running along the stone bench of this rests top yup to that couple that later on daddy explained to me knew full well what that shirt meant they were agreeing with it... I just replied to them I don't know you have to ask my daddy and pointed up at daddy and ran off to roll down the grass hill lol

 

The second time it happened I was in my home town and daddy and I were at the bowling ally I needed to go pee this was before I was comfy wearing pull ups out in public so I ran for the potty as I came out a man stopped me and said are you?? I said huh? He said are you always in trouble lol again my shirt had a smart alac saying on it that just read in sparkly black lettering on florescent pink material Always in Trouble... I said not really but I said to him when I am daddy spanks me n just ran back to daddy lol I was totally very little by the time I got back to our lane I guess those are the two funnest I can think of

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Idk.... this is something I am definitely still learning about myself. 


I find it hard to get into little space sometimes :-\ 


I wonder if that gets easier? 


I know at night time like right before bed my little side seems to come out a lot more and much easier. 


Rules and being in trouble help bring it out lol 


being sick or not feeling well bring it out.... umm... 


Playing with daddy definitely brings it out lol 


other than that I can't think of much else..


I might update this if anything comes to mind though :)


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  • 2 weeks later...

This morning I oddly felt very little- skipping, dancing, singing- I think it was the sun shining! (It's been pretty cold and rainy here recently) it got me thinking about how beautiful sunny day makes me feel little and what else might trigger me to feel little. (I'm usually a grumpy adult teacher on Monday mornings.)

 

My other known triggers are: swimming, cute animals, hanging out with kids, wearing costumes, and probably a lot of other things I haven't discovered yet!!

 

Ps. Thanks mods ;)

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