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My daddy has a habit of disappearing?


kawaiighostx
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Hey all

 So, a bit of background. As far as littles go, I can say that I am pretty needy and clingy. I tend to also get jealous fairly easily. :/ (Although, I consider part of that just a part of my little complex).

 

 Anyways, my Daddy has a habit of disappearing for hours on end without a warning. This upsets me in particular since I have a tendency to worry. (That and i'm clingy haha). He'll say it was because he was asleep, which I understand of course. But often there is no explanation. I've tried talking with him a bit about it, and he has said he will do better to let me know when he needs to go or be alone or whatever, but things haven't really changed.  

Also, this is his first dd/lg relationship and his first time being a daddy. Any ideas on what I should do? :') it's been making me pretty sad as of late. 

 

P.S, sorry if this is a dumb question lmao 

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I had the same exact problem and everytime it was a scene afterwards and i thought like how could he forget after i fought so much about it? I put him in my shoes and asked how he'd feel. Eventually he got better But it was a huge hill. But don't feel bad about it. You seem reasonable and clingy comes with the territory
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I know exactly how you feel! My last Daddy was, thankfully, really good about keeping contact but I think it's definitely going to be a hard thing to deal with in future relationships. I don't really have any advice, because I get just as anxious, sad, and worried as you do but just here to say that I totally understand and feel the same way! Edited by ISOSanity
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I know the feelings and situations.

Ask him what he's doing when he's not texting you back. If it's his first time being a Daddy he should understand how much attention and anxiety soothing little needs.

My Daddy for example sometimes doesn't text me back but he always gives me explanation when I ask or not, before or after, on why didn't he reply, it's e.g. because he went to the grocery store, was reading a book, fell aspleep. He always tries to answer me back but I know that firstly, it's not possible always because there are things important and more important and secondly, men love slightly different than women I think - that's what I tell myself when I get all feelings mixed up in that situations.

Ask him and maybe try to push a little to squeeze the reasons out of him. It shouldn't be a secret what he's doing without his little. Cause it's not very probable that he's a secret agent or so...

But I advise you to ask him face-to-face, if you can of course. If's better that way, because his behaviour and/or reaction may tell you a lot.

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