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I had a Daddy for a few months and little space is something very special to me. So sharing that with this person meant the world to me. He was my Daddy but we weren't romantically involved. He said he had to work on himself but he deleted me off his stuff. I always get abandoned but this one hurts like hell. I can't sleep my anxiety is making me unable to eat. I've been drinking because the pain is so unbearable. I don't know what to do. I'm so lost. Am I not good enough? I try so hard to make others happy. I don't get it I don't understand what I did wrong he said I helped him and made him happy. I get abandoned so much and I only have my Dad family wise and he has cancer. I feel so fucking alone. I'm scared and lost.

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He told you that he needs to work on himself, so evidently it doesn't have anything to do with you but rather himself. I know right now it might hurt and you might feel abandoned but you have to understand that sometimes people do things like this not because of the person they're with but simply because of themselves. When you're unhappy with yourself it's hard to change, especially if there are people in your life that need you and you feel like you have to keep hold of the person you are for them, even when that person isn't the person you want to be.

 

You have to understand that this isn't you fault. You have every right to be sad and grieve over the loss of this relationship you had but you can't blame yourself and you can't let it consume you. Surround yourself with things and people that make you happy, build a support system for yourself so that when things go wrong you can fall back on it. Take precautions when meeting people and getting into a relationship with them (romantic or otherwise) make it clear that you need a certain level of care and you have issues with abandonment, it might not work but it could help with avoiding this situation in the future.

 

Good luck.

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I'm sorry that this has happened to you.

As Ms. Antoinette above me has already said, it's not your fault. Don't fall into the trap of thinking you're not good enough, because you are. It's very unfortunate that he got so close to you and then just abandoned you. That speaks volumes about him. You, however, did nothing wrong. 

Grieve because you are hurting, but know that there is more out there for you on the horizon. You will find happiness and purpose again someday. Until then surround yourself with friends, keep yourself busy, and take care of yourself. Everyone here will be cheering you on.

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You're a League of Legend player? I'm DOTA all the way! It's not ideal that your Daddy has left you, but keep smiling sweetie x

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You're a League of Legend player? I'm DOTA all the way! It's not ideal that your Daddy has left you, but keep smiling sweetie x

League's better :p

 

 

Anyway everyone else has already said this but it really isn't your fault, I hope that you'll see that c: There's also plenty of nice people here that I know will be willing to talk to you if you ever feel down and need to. I do hope that your next daddy will be the right one for you, and that he'll cherish and love you, just like you deserve <3 c:

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League's better :p

 

 

Anyway everyone else has already said this but it really isn't your fault, I hope that you'll see that c: There's also plenty of nice people here that I know will be willing to talk to you if you ever feel down and need to. I do hope that your next daddy will be the right one for you, and that he'll cherish and love you, just like you deserve <3 c:

 

Hahaah, most definitely not! But, you're advice below is fine :p

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Well bubbles if you need someone to talk to I am here. I cant understand how you are feeling. Your past daddy may have wanted more from you or maybe he was content with the relationship. There are a number of reasons he may have left and non may have been your fault. My thoughts go out to but like I said if you need someone to talk to I will be more than happy to talk to you. My job is flexible so I can be around during the day or night.

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