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so i met this girl on here and we were shooting some messages back and forth until we decided we'd keep chatting on a more convenient app and we've been talking daily since.. this was since last friday, so its almost been a week and we've been talking at least a few hours every single day. its ridiculous how much we have in common. when she mentioned her "standards" and i pretty much fit them perfectly. when it comes to her, if i had a type, she would be the closest thing to it.. she's sweet, smart as hell, ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS and has a dark sense of humor which is a big, big plus for me, since i joke about pretty much everything and anything. we talk about the most random, nonsensical shit and its so much fun and i smile the entire time were doing it.. as if this isnt enough, shes also dropdead gorgeous.. i told her i was falling for her so she said "dont fall in love" then followed up with "be in love" WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT MEAN?!? anyways, she is starting to occupy my mind and... yea you know how things go. she's perfect for me, pretty much.. agh man i dont even know where im going with this, just wanted to air i guess haha




thanks for reading <3

 

 

 

 

 

P.S. Shit i really love this girl.. shes too cute I CANT

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This made me smile, best of luck to you two!  <3

haha thanks! its funny how sometimes you just click with someone regardless of whether you love them or not.. when your personalities just match and you just understand eachother.. fuck thats so amazing.

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I hope things continue in this direction for you man. Just remember that it's very easy to rush when it comes to bdsm and ddlg. There's a lot of initial chemistry because of the dynamic, and because of the type of people drawn to this lifestyle. What happens is people fall for each other very quickly, they rush, and then it blows up in their faces. If it seems like you have a strong connection so soon, do not ruin a good thing by rushing. Take your time to make sure you are ready for each step that comes along in this budding relationship. Take care and good luck!

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I hope things continue in this direction for you man. Just remember that it's very easy to rush when it comes to bdsm and ddlg. There's a lot of initial chemistry because of the dynamic, and because of the type of people drawn to this lifestyle. What happens is people fall for each other very quickly, they rush, and then it blows up in their faces. If it seems like you have a strong connection so soon, do not ruin a good thing by rushing. Take your time to make sure you are ready for each step that comes along in this budding relationship. Take care and good luck!

thanks for the advice, but the funny thing is that everything we talk is as vanilla as hell.. neither of us are really really that deep into DDlg. i personally lean more to the vanilla side anyways, to be honest but i will keep your advice in mind! :)

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Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾

This sounds so sweet, I hope things for you two continue to go well and evolve in a good way. It's hard to find the person you feel you fit in almost immediately, and you've been lucky enough to find it.

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This sounds so sweet, I hope things for you two continue to go well and evolve in a good way. It's hard to find the person you feel you fit in almost immediately, and you've been lucky enough to find it.

Thank youu!! so far its going really great! were talking as friends and i have no problem with that so just gonna go with the flow :D

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Not trying to sound negative, but I really think you need to try be a little bit more realistic and careful. Less than a week. You've been talking (online, no less) less than a week. I'm only really answering because I also saw your other post, after this one.

Just try chill out. Yes, it might be something, but there's no way you can love someone in less than a week, especially without physical contact. At this point it's infatuation, nothing more. Sorry but you are besotted and all giddy and entranced. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, and I get it because I've been exactly where you are right now, and I'm a very emotional, intense person. I am just trying to get you to try see it out of the crazy fog of excitement. Because otherwise, if it ends up like many, many of these experiences, you are going to get seriously messed up and hurt. I obviously don't want that to happen, and I realise I sound cynical, but it's realism not cynicism. Just please.....be careful.

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Not trying to sound negative, but I really think you need to try be a little bit more realistic and careful. Less than a week. You've been talking (online, no less) less than a week. I'm only really answering because I also saw your other post, after this one.

Just try chill out. Yes, it might be something, but there's no way you can love someone in less than a week, especially without physical contact. At this point it's infatuation, nothing more. Sorry but you are besotted and all giddy and entranced. Absolutely nothing wrong with that, and I get it because I've been exactly where you are right now, and I'm a very emotional, intense person. I am just trying to get you to try see it out of the crazy fog of excitement. Because otherwise, if it ends up like many, many of these experiences, you are going to get seriously messed up and hurt. I obviously don't want that to happen, and I realise I sound cynical, but it's realism not cynicism. Just please.....be careful.

Hey, its okay, really! My decisions usually based on emotions rather than rational thought. i've learned to accept it and live with it. i really appreciate your concern and i do agree its mostly the rush, but hey im okay with that! its kinda hard to explain, and im kinda feeling tired so im really bad at explaining myself right now, but what im trying to say is that i realize what kind of situation i am in and i know i wont be that torn if things dont work out, due to being able to accept reality and living with it. i hope this kinda makes sense. maybe i'll make a clarification post tomorrow to explain myself further. anyways, thanks a lot for your concern, as it means a lot! 

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No worries. Just didn't want you thinking I was trying to pee on your bonfire, lol. That's ok then. Just enjoy the ride.

pee on my bonfire... now thats a first! :p and no, its all cool. im probably being stupid anywyas, but hey thats what being young is all about, aint it?

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Guest Fros†beard

I'm in a similar situation.
See, someone added me here and it turns out they live in my city.
I mean, what are the chances? And she's cute, funny, kind, smart & shares some of my interests...

Anyway, yeah. Ride the wave, but please be careful. I rushed in once and it led to easily one of the darkest periods of my life.
I wish you two all the best. Godspeed.

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I'm in a similar situation.

See, someone added me here and it turns out they live in my city.

I mean, what are the chances? And she's cute, funny, kind, smart & shares some of my interests...

 

Anyway, yeah. Ride the wave, but please be careful. I rushed in once and it led to easily one of the darkest periods of my life.

I wish you two all the best. Godspeed.

woah dude.. thats awesome to hear! i hope you two hit it off! and i'll be careful. you have my word. best of luck to you too, man.

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I have rushed in more than once and deeply regretted it when reality hit. And unfortunately I haven't always had youth to blame, haha.

life's a gamble. you win some, you lose some  :D

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My new Daddy and I are in a very similar place... Falling hard and fast, but it feels wonderful <3 Good luck to you!!

Thank you and right back at you! i hope nothing but the best for you two! <3

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Even after everything I've said, I'm not that far from that myself....but at least i waited a couple of weeks!! Hehe.

*slow clap* proud of you, stranger on the interwebs! :p

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Hahaha, the slow clap makes me laugh. Hey, I'm 46, I'm not dead yet, and some lessons never seem to be fully learned

never too old to learn and too young to fail, eh?

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