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wait... you got a little without knowing what being a Daddy is? That doesnt make sense.

 

***Didn't mean to sound negative there, I just didn't understand. It happened the other way around for me. I'm deeply sorry***

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wait... you got a little without knowing what being a Daddy is? That doesnt make sense.

Of course it makes sense. Not all men that develop into being good daddies start off with the self proclaimed title.

My Daddy never saw Himself as a Daddy til He met me. Just identified as a Dom.

That's a very ignorant reply to someone wanting to learn to be better for their little.

 

To the op, just talk to her, find out what makes her tick. It's mostly about if you are compatible, and what you have in common. Google can also be your friend. My Daddy found some good articles that we looked at together. Like You, He was trying to figure out this kind of dynamic. And even though He was new to thus, and the title of Daddy, He is the best i could have ever wished for. He is just a natural Daddy.

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There are no rules to being a good daddy only different ways. Find out what your littles needs are and, if they are compatible with u, fulfil those needs.

 

Being good in any relationship is mostly about communication and listening i think. Sometimes u will not like the same things but will find lots of common ground to make up for that. We are all individual n therefore different

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Of course it makes sense. Not all men that develop into being good daddies start off with the self proclaimed title.

My Daddy never saw Himself as a Daddy til He met me. Just identified as a Dom.

That's a very ignorant reply to someone wanting to learn to be better for their little.

 

To the op, just talk to her, find out what makes her tick. It's mostly about if you are compatible, and what you have in common. Google can also be your friend. My Daddy found some good articles that we looked at together. Like You, He was trying to figure out this kind of dynamic. And even though He was new to thus, and the title of Daddy, He is the best i could have ever wished for. He is just a natural Daddy.

 

I fixed the comment. It wasn't my intention to be negative. I understand how that might have been mistaken.

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Being a good daddy is a matter of perspective, you could be the perfect daddy to someone but really bad to someone else. To be a good daddy to "that" little, first you need to understand her, and understand there will be a moment that she wouldn't listen to be obedient, what you do in these situations is what counts, she needs trusts, tasks and punishment, but about all she needs to be treated special. Give her time,and be fun. Some moves might be cheese for you, but the girls love em, like stroking her hair, or playing with the tip of her ear.. Thats your job. Find out what she likes. Just remember being a daddy is a privilege, if a girl chose you to be a daddy that doesn't mean you have the right to own her or destroy her life. It simply means guidance and protection
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If you feel that this is something you want to get into, I strongly recommend you check out dominantlife on tumblr. Go to his Library for Kinksters, make a cup of coffee, and dig in. There is a ton of great articles about the dynamic, safety, rules, discipline, you name it. This is where I got my start when I began my journey as a Dom.
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Just remember that everyone's different.  This forum's a good starting point to get a feel for what it's about and maybe Fetlife as well.  There will be differences of opinion everywhere you look, try to avoid the "real daddies do x and everyone else is fake"; there isn't one true way.

Learn what she needs and wants.  Help and encourage her to develop. 

Evolve and learn but don't stop being yourself, don't try to turn into someone else to fit with a definition.

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Just remember that everyone's different. This forum's a good starting point to get a feel for what it's about and maybe Fetlife as well. There will be differences of opinion everywhere you look, try to avoid the "real daddies do x and everyone else is fake"; there isn't one true way.

 

Learn what she needs and wants. Help and encourage her to develop.

Evolve and learn but don't stop being yourself, don't try to turn into someone else to fit with a definition.

Could not agree more
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