How to have a one night stand

[Walnut]

Hey! I'm looking for ideas of how to rock 3 or 4 hours of DDlg play with a near-total stranger.

 

So, I'm a guy and I've met a girl online. We're going to hook up in a few days and she's a committed little.

 

She's familiar in this world. This is my kink too, but this is my first real life opportunity to express it.

 

Thing is, it's a very casual hook up. Might be a one-off, who knows.

 

In my mind, being a daddy takes time. Time to learn what the little needs and the time to make her feel both protected and, when needed, punished.

 

I can't see how to walk through the door and get straight into it.

 

Like even the literal walking through the door. Do I go straight in as a Daddy or start with a period of normal conversation first?!

 

She knows I am inexperienced but keen to play. I'm sure she will guide me a bit... but it's a game of power and me needing help rather negates that.

 

So, really, what I want is a plan of attack. A way to start the game. Some things to ask her to do.

 

Stuff that will feed her fantasy, impress her, but still be neutral enough not to push it too far on a one night stand where I don't truly know what she likes.

 

Please help! Like I say, any ideas of how to rock 3 or 4 hours of DDlg play with a stranger would be appreciated!

[Guest SUeB]

Well if it's casual, it has nothing to actually do with the relationship dynamic, cos there is no relationship. You aren't developing anything, you're just meeting up for sex, so just let her call you Daddy and be in charge, basically. Even better, ask her what kind of "daddy" she wants and act accordingly. Casual is just that.....casual. No real planning or deep thought necessary.

[DavCentral]

I would just be casual and adult friends for the first while, talk, communicate.. Get relaxed in each others company first, then see if she becomes little around you or if you need to show some Daddy side for the magic to happen.

 

you can easily go into daddy mode and do things like play with toys together with her, have her to draw something for you, braid her hair, watch cartoons together, give her a sippy and a little space meal, cut it up for her.. that kind of regular activity.

 

I really think you should discuss together what you want out of the time though.

[ernesto23]

Hey! I'm looking for ideas of how to rock 3 or 4 hours of DDlg play with a near-total stranger.

 

So, I'm a guy and I've met a girl online. We're going to hook up in a few days and she's a committed little.

 

She's familiar in this world. This is my kink too, but this is my first real life opportunity to express it.

 

Thing is, it's a very casual hook up. Might be a one-off, who knows.

 

In my mind, being a daddy takes time. Time to learn what the little needs and the time to make her feel both protected and, when needed, punished.

 

I can't see how to walk through the door and get straight into it.

 

Like even the literal walking through the door. Do I go straight in as a Daddy or start with a period of normal conversation first?!

 

She knows I am inexperienced but keen to play. I'm sure she will guide me a bit... but it's a game of power and me needing help rather negates that.

 

So, really, what I want is a plan of attack. A way to start the game. Some things to ask her to do.

 

Stuff that will feed her fantasy, impress her, but still be neutral enough not to push it too far on a one night stand where I don't truly know what she likes.

 

Please help! Like I say, any ideas of how to rock 3 or 4 hours of DDlg play with a stranger would be appreciated!

 

Probabbly it is hard to arrange, but not imposile, key is in communication, try to talk, and see how other side will react on your ideas, hope that everything will be ok and very fun!

[Nymph]

Sounds like roleplaying would be the way to go, that way you can pretend there is already a relationship established and play along. It's not really DD/lg without the connection, you are right about that and I am a bit shocked she can't tell the difference if she is that experienced. I have heard of girls having very intense fantasies and trying to bluff their way to get them saying they have had it before, so keep that in mind.

 

Some people are not good of pin-pointing what it is that does the trick for them or they feel it's not the same if they need to ask. One way to go around this is if she has ever watched a movie that she finds super hot or read an erotic story, then you should check it out and it should give you an idea.

 

I would guess the main things you need to find out is if she is a brat and is expecting punishment or funishment and what she finds too scary. If she regress, then how much to know what to expect and be prepared. Definitely have a safe word even if getting wild is not in the plans.

 

Things you can do to excite her is to have the daddy attitude straight away. Playfully call her princess or a pet name of sorts, if you guys are going to have dinner first then take charge by asking her what she is in the mood for and suggest 3 choices  (my Daddy usually orders for me but we know each other very well). In bed tease her with stuff she is enjoying and give a few simple orders, call her a good girl and reward her with more if she is eager to please. If she is defiant then a playful spank with a warning will tell you if she wants to head that way.

 

Good luck and have fun!

[ernesto23]

"Newbie", how it was, can you share with us?