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Has anyone ever told friends about DD/lg?


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Okay so today one of my friends at work was looking over my shoulder while I was texting and he noticed that one of my auto words while texting is "Daddy" and he put it together and started making fun of me - not in a mean way, we have a teasing kind of friendship, then he dropped it and didn't really care.

But then I figured just in case he'd tell our other two best friends, I texted those girls telling them that he found out that I call my boyfriend Daddy sometimes and do they think that's weird. They told me they didn't think it was weird at all and that whatever my boyfriend and I want in our relationship is our business and no one else can judge. This made me super duper happy.

Now I'm thinking about maybeee telling them more about DD/lg. I actually think that maybe the girls may have little sides too, we always love Disney and acting like giddy kids together. But I have nooo idea how to even potentially start that and talk to people about it. I was already terrified talking about how I call my boyfriend Daddy so I don't know if I would be brave enough to continue this topic!  :unsure:

So my question is anyone scared of telling friends like I am? And if you told people, how did you do it?? Did they take it well? 

 

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I was seriously terrified of telling some of my friends. I thought they would hate me and not want to be my friend. I was wrong! I have told my best friend who is a guy and 3 of my other friends. They all took it really well and accepted me for who i was. It has gotten to the point where I have been little around my guy friends (they find it adorable) and 2 friends who are girls i can talk abut daddy and little stuff to them, they even color with me! My advice to you is if they are really your best friend u trust them enough, tell them. Do it in person, not text. They will take it better. Good luck!!

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I just told my best girlfriend yesterday. I agree that it would be better in person. We visited her house after a long time, so we got to talk. I knew she would still be my friend, but I didn't know what she would think about everything. But I had to tell her. I felt like I was keeping my whole life from her because I am a 24/7 babygirl/little slave now. 

  Turns out that she and her husband are beginning to explore kink as well and she calls him daddy, too. It was wonderful to find out we were on the same page about it all and I feel like I can be myself around her.

 

I hope it goes well for you, too!

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I also told one of my best friends. Turns out she's into the same kinks as I am and she calls her boyfriend Daddy too. I really got lucky with that one xD

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I have only told one friend because she's a little and I saw one of her facebook posts about it. I'm nervous to tell my friends but I think I am gaining enough courage to be able to be honest if they ever ask about it or ask if I am into anything. 

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Thank you for the advice!!  :D I plan on m​aybe telling them soon when I next see them, so wish me luck!!  :)

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I just started knowingly taking part the lifestyle, but haven't changed much of anything. I just know I'm not crazy by feeling little so often. I wish I knew other littles in person.

 

I have a really good friend that is kink positive, so I told her about it and she was supportive, but she doesn't live nearby. I wish I could talk about it with my close group of friends from school, but I'm afraid that even if they were okay with it that they may tease me, (which they used to do when I was in little space, they would call me "special"). I always just thought I was silly and immature and a cry baby.

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  • 7 months later...
I have told only one friend but we actually discovered the caregiver/little one dynamic together so he and I kind of found out we were little together but I didn't want him to know it was something I did we were just like "oh that's cute" like we liked the dynamic but then he told me he was little and now he's my 'big brother'
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You are much braver than me! 

 

I"m so scared of my friends finding out, I don't think they would judge me, then know me and Daddy are into BDSM kinky things and are totally accepting and cool with it, they even ask me questions about it, and stuff. I think my own anxieties about my little side is what makes me scared to tell them more than any actual real judgement they would have. 

 

I would love to have more little friends, but...I'm really scared to make them especially in person at meet ups as I worry how being a part of a visible community where I live could affect my future career as people have some really big misconceptions about caregiver and little relationships..

 

I wish you lots of luck and I am sure your friends will accept you with open arms <3

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i don't have an official caregiver, so that's not a mountain I've got to climb any time soon if ever but if I did have a daddy, s/he would likely be butch female-bodied and the people in that community already have some tolerance of the dynamic (to some extent) and people outside the dynamic are already so confused by butch/femme that if they are likely to have a problem by the daddy/girl thing then we probably already aren't friends.

 

I did tell a transmasculine friend of mine recently about the little thing - I kinda think he has some daddy traits and we used to be roommates so we had an interesting discussion about it. He said his impulse was to judge but that he tried not to judge and that he did see aspects of lg in his wife and daddy in him but that he hadn't explored it and it kinda freaked him out. So I guess that convo was odd but honest.

 

I don't know how out in the open to be about any of this but I don't want to be any more in the closet about who I am as a human being than I have to be.

 

There is a girl I am making friends with who lives nearby. She posted the other day about how she really wants these bear hoodie pajamas and to color all day with these new adult coloring books and colored pencils while wearing these pajamas. As far as I know she's not officially a little but I so want her to be my little friend. I told her I wanna color with her some time.

 

I am trying to just be more openly little. Not announcing I am little but just enjoying being little openly - and so far what I have noticed is that it seems to make people around me seem happier and freer. i am guessing there is a cap on that, but it's nice to be a bit more free.

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I couldn't tell my friends about it. I think girls are a lot more supportive of friends, especially as they get older.

I mean, a few of my friends pick on me because they disagree with my music taste or my political views, so I can't even begin to imagine what they would do if I told them about this...

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my best friend knows. and she is INSANELY supportive of me/it. She asked a ton of questions when I told her, so she could get a better understanding of it. She will make jokes like "go home get a juice, grab your blankie and take a nap nap?" or like Ill tell her I'm shopping for little things, or if I'm little.

 

the other day I said something was g-rated. and she asked "only g-rated?" and I responded with "well yeah, I'm only 5" and she said "oh, true"

That moment, I was so proud she was my  best friend and that she knows.

 

I told my other two friends and they didn't really ask questions, they were just like "ok" and they never really talk to me about it.

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I have 1 real life friend who knows, which only happened because I suspected he was little too. I have another friend I've been debating on telling, I'm sure she'd take it fine and it'd probably explain a lot to her. We'll see.

 

It's always nice to have people who support you, to not have to hide bits and pieces of yourself from different people. I'm not ashamed and I think I'd tell anyone now who I felt would be okay with it.

 

I think I've reached this point in life where my attitude is "this is me, take it or leave it."

 

<3

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I told one friend and it was a complete disaster...but to be honest....he is not the greatest person in the world anymore. He's always been a bit of a religious fanatic...very pushy with his version of Christianity...but he got back with this girl he used to date and has gotten ten times worse....so when he first seemed to want to find an "lg" of his own...then freaked out later and basically accused me of aligning with Satan....it wasn't really as shocking as you might think. 

 

I told one other friend....and it turned out he has been a Dom in BDSM (though not a Daddy) for decades. 

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