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Before me and my big got into a relationship, he was actually a sub but he tried out the dd/lg dynamic for me and fell in love with it but sometimes he asks to take charge and do big kid things since he was a sub, ofc I don't have a problem with this b/c I'd do anything for him. 

Just curious if any other littles switch roles for their daddy?? Idk just me???

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Once in a while I'll switch with Daddy. It's pretty rare though because he's not much of a sub and I'm not much of a Domme. It's fun to change it up occasionally though I think.
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We switch sometimes! For Daddy though, being little is more of a sexy time thing. I'm not good at being dominant, but sometimes its fun. And lately we will both end up in little space together after sexy times.
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I'm dominant outside of a DD/lg dynamic so normally in sexy times is when that'll come up. I like to take control sometimes but my partner doesn't become a little just more submissive

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Guest curious-babydoll
Papa and I are exploring his little side... He's never been able to before so we are still feeling out as we and because he has no idea where his limits are with that it's a lot of trial and error... I've switched with past partners it's just hard for me... I can't do it often- it doesn't feel right to me. Papa is okay with that though because he loves being my papa and says he doesn't feel like he needs it often so that works out well. I can't dope with doing for for long periods (maybe a day at most at a time) and he doesn't like doing it for long either because he likes being in control and taking care of me but it's a nice break every once in a while. It helps me get my Momma/super nuertering and protectiveness out and gives me a chance to get the Dom feelings out and it gives him a chance to Let himself allow me to take care of him and really let out... It woks well for us.
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My Daddy and me never really switch roles but sometimes I try and look after him in a more mature way than a little way. Like when Daddy is really upset or hurting about something I will take on the more adult role and comfort him that way. I think it works well because if I tried to do it in a little way I might upset Daddy more because he'd feel like he had to be the responsible one. I think every now and then even Caregivers need to cry a little bit, and when Daddy is hurt it means I can give back a little part of the love, care and attention that he gives me everyday :) 

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I am usually the dom in the relationship but I want my little to switch on occassion at least in regard to one certain kink I have, I have always been curious about being pegged/prostate massage - orgasm. Well it finally happed tonight. It was the most intense feeling ever. Apparently I was so wrapped up in pleasure and the sensations I was able to achive a prostate orgasm and didnt realize my stuff was pouring out..hah. dont worry I rewarded my little for taking care of her daddy.

But how many daddys and littles actually take turn switching off on occassion? And does having a little peg her daddy mess up the dynamic?

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i don't think having a "scene" changes the dynamic. DDlg is way more than just sex. Obviously we all have our kinks lol :wub: and sexual desires. The best part of a BDSM lifestyle is that everything is subjective. Just because You like something during "sexy play time", it's really what happens outside of the bedroom that determines each persons role. Generally a "switch" would be someone who can switch between sub to Dom or Dom to sub easily without any issue. If You would like Your little to be the one in charge outside of sex and have a desire to be submissive to her, then You could be a switch. But if it is just during sex it is more likely that You would like to create scenes for You and Your little to act out. my Daddy and i would never switch outside of the bedroom. Mainly He is EXTREMELY Dominating and would be uncomfortable not being in control of our daily life and decision making. In the same respect i would never be comfortable being in charge making all of the hard decisions that come with being the Daddy/Mommy. i am much to shy and nervous and trust my Daddy with 100% decision making. i don't do anything without His permission. Although my Daddy and i like to act out our kinks in the form of scenes, "naughty school boy/girl and principal" "cheerleader and coach" "little boy/girl and mommy/Daddy" "patient and nurse". Daddy likes to challenge me in scenes by taking me out of my comfort zone and He will have me take charge during the scene,even though He often takes back control whenever He feels necessary. Like i said all of this is subjective and You should do what is comfortable for You and Your little. No one can say whether what You are doing is right or wrong. 

            xoxo-princess           

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My Daddy likes being sub sometimes, and even play that HE is my little girl and I'm DD... 

But I don't like it, I can't be a dom or Daddy... and I don't really like sharing my paci >:CCCC 

So we don't switch often, only if he really wants that... .-. 

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I'm a little bit (well, apparently, a lot) different from other male members of this site. I've just joined, and I haven't established a relationship with anyone--I imagine it will be an on-line relationship--but I have to say I am very much a sub. When I was younger (22) I was friends with a boy, 17. He worked hard, but I didn't work at all, He got tired of my laziness, and he whipped me with a rolled-up towel. As a result I was his virtual slave for a year; I could deny him nothing. I am in the same position as boys who fall in love--really, have crushes--on their babysiters who spank them. My feelings about spanking is complicated, so I won't go into it. In spite of my subordinate nature I fell in love with and lived with a woman for 7 years. Our relationship was pretty normal on the surface; she never even thought of spanking me, and I never brought it up. But I was so desperate for this girl to stay with me that I did practically anything I could for her. I wasn't exactly her slave but her servant. The only thing, pretty much, that I did, and persisted in doing, even though she didn't like it and confined me to my room or outdoors when I was doing it, was smoking cigarettes, even after I had a rather severe heart attack and had to have quadruple-by pass surgery. (The problem with quitting smoking, which I did for 7 months, was simply this: I loved smoking so much that if I didn't resume it I was going to take my life, and that's pretty much worse--for me--than dying from some smoking-related ilness; anyway, if I had committed suicide I would have died much sooner.) But finally our relationship came to an end after 7--rather closer to 8--years, and its end was not pleasant. So, you see, I am for the most part a sub, and I don't like being the "master.' I guess I picture myself as a "little"--in spite of my advanced age; in my imagination i am a 14 year old boy under the care of a "mommy," an older sister, a babysitter (female)--or a "daddy" or older brother, --who spank me or paddle me when I've been bad. Spanking to me is the highest form of erotic satisfaction I can get--as long as it's deserved; I'm afraid I don't like "playful" spankings--though a hard "smack" on the rump by a caretaker is fine. It's playful. So I'm different; but I hope I can find my place here.

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Mommy's very much a switch, so sometimes we swap roles, even though I'm not that great on the dominant or mommy side.

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Yes yes yes!


It started out with just me being a little (and not even knowing it) and then I brought the little side out of Poppybear.


Sometimes he calls me Momma or Mommybear. I take care of him and am strict when I need to be. Keep in mind that this is never sexual.


During sexy time, he is always the dom and it will always be like that because that's what we like. 


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Nope absolutely not. We are all different but I would have no interest in that. I am 100% submissive, not a switch in any sense. And my daddy is 100% dominant. It's who we are deep down inside. The very idea of him wanting me to be in charge is absolutely against everything we are.

But if you're both happy, go for it. It only matters how you feel about it.

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I never considered myself a switch before I started playing with Daddy. But because he has interest in it, I developed an interest in it too ^_^ Sometimes he really needs to be hurt, and that's a need I 100% understand. Personally, I look at it as a form of service to Daddy and that helps me kind of wrap my head around what I'm doing :p

 

I'm still really bad at it lol I am still kind of little while it's happening. There's a lot of giggling and teasing and merciless spanking. Working my way up to verbal humiliation...that one is hard cause it makes ME emotional too. I've done little bit of physical humiliation. I experimented some recently and I liked it ^_^ Basically, where it's at now, Daddy is one of my stuffies that I can do with whatever I want! But practice makes perfect, and I'll get there someday I'm sure.

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Absolutely not happening here X3 Of course I don't have a problem with that being anyone else's dynamic, but I could never be any kind of Dom for him (or anyone else)! and I really doubt he could ever bring himself to be little, either :p

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