Do you know any CG/Littles IRL, or have suspicions?

[Wolfycheeks]

*:･ﾟ✧ Have any of you ever spoken to friends, or other people, and thought 'hmmm I wonder if this person knows about DDLG/is involved in it? Or have you told anyone about it and they were like 'omg me too!'? I suspect two of my acquaintances are a DD/LG couple, but that's just my suspicion.. ofcourse I won't ask! Sorry for the random question!! Toodles!! ✧･ﾟ: *

 

 

[DreamingDesire]

BDSM, yes. I had known that person for over 10 years. We were friends before either of us even knew what BDSM really was, I think. At some point I decided to open up to her about it, because I felt we could always tell each other literally everything. Turns out her first boyfriend was also into BDSM so she had some real life experience with it, and has been flirting with it ever since. DDLG specifically, unsure. I've also suspected it, but didn't bother bringing it up yet. We do attract people similar to us, after all, so it makes sense that some people we connect easily with have this same hidden side somewhere.

Edited November 1, 2017 by DreamingDesire

[Guest SUeB]

Nope, not at all. Closest thing was with a fellow PT at the gym i work at. Someone was saying something dumb about 50 shades (as in, he was saying it was good, lol)

We got into a jokey conversation about it, i was saying how utterly awful it was, whilst not being too obvious about my own life. This other PT joined in, and made me think "hmmm....how does he know these things?" although he wasn't being obvious either.

i made a bit of a joke, saying that maybe he was on the same kinds of sites that i was on. He just kind of laughed, as i did myself, as though i was only having a laugh.

A couple of days after, i got a pm on fetlife from him. i actually nearly died!! He said something like "looks like you were right!"

[Untwisted]

I have done but at the time simply didn't know that ddlg was a thing.  I was in a relationship for years with someone who I'd now recognise as having her little space that she'd go into.  It was nice but at the time it felt like it was a bit odd to enjoy interacting like that and I tried not to get too into it.  We never talked about it and she may have been as unaware as I was that it was a real thing rather than just our thing. 

There have been a couple of other women I've been close to over the years who I'd now say were probably somewhere on the ddlg/bdsm spectrum whether they were aware of it or not. 

All in the past now...

[Guest aphroditelaughs]

Both of my closest friends are involved in kink, but only one is explicitly a Daddy. It's not something we talk about openly around the other friend though, because he doesn't like it.

 

There are a couple other people I know but am not friends with who are in a DDlg relationship.

[HisDumbBunny]

I know a few people in real life who are definitely into ddlg (and other bdsm things) and there's also another girl I know I suspect of maybe being a little, but... I didn't find out for sure the last time I spent a lot of time with her so I may never know...

[Guest Fal~]

I have thought it! My ex-bestfriend knew about me and was so supportive.. she was into it only a little bit too

I really would love to make more little friends

[Leilei]

I am old enough to have a son in his early 20s and it's obvious his girlfriend who currently lives with us because he works out of town 10 day stretches and she can't manage well on her own is a little and he is her caregiver. (Attitudes, responsibilities, sippy cups, etc) but they don't know it for what it is, lol.

[DaddyKens]

I've known a few over the years. I'm one of those fortunates, or unfortunates lol, that people find easy to talk to and just open up.

 

Met at total stranger a couple of weeks ago, sat at the same table having a coffee, and five minutes later she was telling me she was a sub mainly but loved the idea of being a little.

[Guest Mister Grey]

There is this couple at my work, they have been married a long time and when I see them interact, I have a feeling they are Dom/sub.  

 

Its just little things, subtle, but I think I am spot on.  

 

I notice that she speaks softly to him and he speaks at her, not exactly to her, as if a command.  She does not speak to anyone else that way.

 

They have a lunch pack that is almost the size of a cooler.  She does not bring him lunch, she literally serves him a meal.

 

I notice when they walk together, she always walks behind him, never next to him even if there is room and he never regards her in an affectionate way.

 

 

To me there is a very strict D/s thing going on there.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Or emotional/spousal abuse. *scratch-chin*

If there's no affection and he just speaks commands to her, despite being in the public eye.

And she's really quiet.

 

I guess it's hard to tell when it comes to straight up Dom & Sub, compared to Little & CG.

I never thought there to be a lack of affection as part of being in either dynamic though, that's why I say maybe it's a lil bit on the sinister side of things.

 

 

Edit:

The only people I know IRL who are into bdsm stuff are MY PARENTS.

And they don't know that I know what I know, if you know what I mean.

*pukes everywhere*

Just don't go searching your parents closet for your xmas presents as a kid.

What a way to learn.

Don't try lecturing me all "they're grown adults they have the right to blah blah blah"-

The puking has already commenced and I will continue to do so until I am clean again! Good day!

Edited January 3, 2018 by MarshmallowSnot

[Guest Mister Grey]

She does not give any indication that she is unhappy at all, and he does not abuse her nor does she show signs of abuse, and they have normal conversations.  They area season tickets holders to our local hockey franchise and they are both very excited and open about that and she is very sweet, and smart and detailed (she’s a QC manager)

 

to me, I dont get abuse, I get strict dom.  obviously this is my impression and it can also be a cultural thing because she is caucasian and he is japanese, so that might have some play in there as well.

 

 

Everybody has their thing and some might think she is being abused, I can see that argument, except that if she enjoys that power transfer than its her kink.

[xpaciprincesss]

A close friend dabbled into DDlg and I also used to be friends with his (now ex) little, but he's more of a classic Dome kinda guy. 

 

I have a couple friends who have some little traits, but I'm to shy to ask without having more evidence that they are.

 

I actually discovered DDlg through a friend. He is a Daddy, and it's kind of a deal breaker for him, so I assume most of his partners I've known were littles.

 

And, my last two exes were my Caregivers, but they're out of my life now.

 

As for BDSM in general, I know lots of people who are in D/s relationships as I was very involved in my local comm and made great friends there.

[Guest countlieberkuhn]

I know a girl really well who is very obviously a little but she isnt very well versed in kinks or anything of the sort, very vanilla person really. She's 30 and loves MLP, has a sippy cup and adult colouring books. Its kinda nice that she acts like that without probably knowing what a little even is.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Everybody has their thing and some might think she is being abused, I can see that argument, except that if she enjoys that power transfer than its her kink.

 

 

No no, it's all good. ^^ I was just thinking about how it's hard to tell the difference from an outsider POV, and the lack of affection part threw me.

Hope it didn't sound like I was saying dom & sub relationships are abusive, cuz that's not how I feel at all.

 

The extra info counts for a lot.

[Guest Mister Grey]

No no, it's all good. ^^ I was just thinking about how it's hard to tell the difference from an outsider POV, and the lack of affection part threw me.

Hope it didn't sound like I was saying dom & sub relationships are abusive, cuz that's not how I feel at all.

 

The extra info counts for a lot.

 

Oh no, I get it and your absolutely right.  I completely agree

 

[Daddyslol]

I did but I didn't know it at the time.  I've been a fairly sheltered person (though I HATE other people saying it) and didn't really know enough to recognize it for what it is.  At the end of my last relationship I started questioning what the good parts of it would be classified as since I did recognize that there was a D/s component to it.  I'd always shied away from the term Daddy Dom or anything of the sort but when i really broke it down I realized I was letting a name hold me back. 

 

All the relationships of others in my life that I've admired and wished to emulate were in fact DDLG even if they didn't know what it was called.

 

My best friends parents, def DDLG.  EVERYONE calls him "Diddy" myself included.  

2 of my aunt/uncles.  One pair was MUCH more openly ddlg than the other and I believe they knew it for what it was (I seem to remember Aunt Jeanie wearing a heart locket lol) but the other pair I know for a fact have no clue.  They'd be shocked to their core to know they have a bdsm relationship XD

 

When I met Daddy on a dating site I didn't even know he was interested in such things (vanilla site).  I'm not even sure what made me mention dominance but he immediately came back with "have you ever heard of DDLG" and magic happened <3

[Insanity_Stars_Birdie]

My ex boyfriend apparently recently started toying with the idea of being a daddy and looking back on our relationship he definitely showed signs of it in how nurturing and protective he was of me so it kind of makes sense.

 

I know a few littles as well. One of my close friends brought it up when she suspected I may be one, actually. I also have two really close friend who are daddies.

[Daddymanchetseruk]

I don't think honk I know any. But in London I saw a girl going down the escalator around Christmas time carrying a teddy. She was gorgeous and had a really cute young look about her. But obviously older (20s). She was with a couple of friends. But couldn't think I wonder if she is their little.

Couldnt get her Out of my head that day

 

Shame the dating sites specific for ddlg, ageplay etc.. are full of spam and fake profiles because I think there isn't a lot of us and it would be a lot easier to find what we are looking for.