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Maybe a weird question but I'm engaged to an airman and I was wondering if there were any other littles or subs in a relationship with a military partner. If so, how do you cope with their military life? I have a hard time coping with anything in general so I could use some advice :)
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I fully understand. When Papa and I first got together he was in the Corp. Military life is hard, but we never lived together because we weren't married yet. The guys and gals can get rowdy, but it's all in good fun. Keep your chin up during the lonely times and enjoy any second you have together.
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I fully understand. When Papa and I first got together he was in the Corp. Military life is hard, but we never lived together because we weren't married yet. The guys and gals can get rowdy, but it's all in good fun. Keep your chin up during the lonely times and enjoy any second you have together.

yeah we're planning on legally getting married soon so that I can go ahead and live with him (technically eloping) but he's getting deployed in October DX I'll be in a new place far from home and family and I'm hoping to get to know some people so that I won't be completely alone the whole time. I'm really nervous about all of it but I keep trying to look at it as a new opportunity to start fresh and have a new adventure :) so if you're ever near Mountain Home, Idaho just send me a message because I'd love to hang out with someone new

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My daddy isn't in the military but he is contracted by them. He works three weeks at a time away from home on a boat. Then he comes home for three weeks. For the first year while we were dating, he worked six weeks at a time. It is very hard at times, especially when I have to go through big girl stuff like work all day, then come home and the house is empty. I got into the little lifestyle (I never know how much living ddlg is living the 'lifestyle' but whatevs, I digress) with him, so I haven't really learned yet how to be little when he is gone. Except for pouting over skype :p

So as far as coping with the distance for weeks at a time, I just try to get through that first week, and then get through the last few days. Those seem to be the slowest parts. Focus on work (/studies if that's you), and projects around the house if you feel up to it. We got a puppy and he has been a good cuddler in his absence, albeit quite the responsibility too. If anyone else has tips, I'm all ears too :)

it's good that you have a bit of a schedule to plan to lol I just kind of go with it. in high school, we got to see each other once a month because we only lived 2 hours apart but when he joined the military, I obviously started seeing him a lot less you know? I did get to see him for our anniversary in February though <3 even got through my fear of planes so that I could take 2 flights to go see him XD and I'm visiting him for his birthday next month <3<3<3 after that, I plan on moving in with him in August just after my birthday ^~^

and I'm the same way kinda lol I've always been kinda childish and cute with him but when we discovered ddlg I knew why I felt so comfortable doing that. but being without him so often, I always have to put on a brave face and act like a big strong girl and that's just not who I am. and it's hard for me to be little just through texting or skype because my brain will just switch to that and then won't want to switch back to deal with real life so it's hard :( I'm glad I'm not the only one who has similar issues though lol

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Hi. My daddy just went to basics a few days ago and it's killing me inside to be without him.. I miss him so much. I haven't received any letters yet. I cry everyday missing him so much. I can't sleep good anymore. Any advice for me? I feel as though he left me forever and I have to wait two months to see him.
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A quick update. He called me today and gave me his address!! My stuffie, Sir Nipper,(he's a puppy daddy first gave me) jumped up and down and I cried in happiness! He's okay!! I'm so happy!! :')
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