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1. A little ≠ A child 

We are all adults here and capable adult conversation. If you are a LITTLE, do try to remember that, and don't messege a person for the first time in baby talk or something along those lines. It irks me ,and probably many more. I want to be able to have an adult conversation with you and if u messege me like that how am i suppossed to get to know you? Things like that are only for once you are already really close and have some intimacy.

DADDYS should also remember that. Just because a person is a little does not mean she isn't capable of adult conversation and has no oppinions of her own. 

 

2. A huge amount of "18 year olds"

I have noticed that there is quiet a few people that are allegedly 18 years old here, and while some actually are , I highly doubt it that everyone actually is of legal age. I do understand that you want to be here, cause you do consider urself a little and want to interact with likeminded people, as well as find a daddy, but keep in mind that you are putting the caregiver in a compromising position by doing so, you are afterall a minor

 

3. The repeated "Why are you ignoring me?" question

So, I have interacted with a lot of people so far and have stopped replying to the vast majority of them. Why you ask? CAUSE YOU CAN'T FREAKING HOLD A CONVERSATION. When I talk to someone, I tend to write a lot and bassicly write down whatever I'd say in person and goes on in my mind. And what do you write? Essentially nothing. You anwser the questions I pose with yes or no, and maybe add another sentence to that , while having nothing original to say yourself. So ofcourse that gets really dull really quick , and naturally I stop replying. After I do stop replying I get the "Why are you ignoring me?" question. Well let me pose a question of my own: Are you brain dead?

 

 

Anyway, I was bored so I thought I'd write a bit about the things that irk me and probably many others.

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Guest Andyy95

Oh there are many things that irk me on here and fet, lol. But who has the time to write them all down...... :p

 

Well same, but I had some free time, so I wrote down the highlights ... If I wanted to write down everything I'd have to quit my job :s

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YES YES YES! Thank you for saying this!!! Also I HATE HATE HATE when people assume that they are my daddy or use pet names with me before I give permission to! It is so irritating!!!

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Guest Andyy95

While I did partially make this post to vent, it was mainly so people that do that could become a bit self-aware of their actions and try to change. I mean I'm not asking you to change as a person , just to conduct yourself a bit differently when interacting with others. You may be a great person, someone the person you contacted would LOVE ... but because of conduct such as this you'll get ignored before they get a chance too see that person.

 

That's all, live long and prosper

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Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾
Fully agree with all points. Especially the first one. I do not like it when they speak to me for the first time as if I were a child. First on my profile it says clearly that I am a middle, so I DON'T use baby talk.

I also don't like it when some littles speak to me like that, because English is not my first language, and seeing it so deformed, badly written makes me really almost impossible to understand. And that stresses me and I feel bad about not being able to understand and respond.

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Oh the thing about pet names drives me potty. Don't you DARE call me princess, or little one or anything else for that matter, or i will be ALL up in that condescending, ignorant, creepy little grill of yours, you stupid little boy!!

Lol.....told you it drives me potty :p

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Guest Andyy95

Oh the thing about pet names drives me potty. Don't you DARE call me princess, or little one or anything else for that matter, or i will be ALL up in that condescending, ignorant, creepy little grill of yours, you stupid little boy!!

Lol.....told you it drives me potty :p

 

While I am very against it as well, I now wanna do it just to annoy you :p

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Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾

Oh the thing about pet names drives me potty. Don't you DARE call me princess, or little one or anything else for that matter, or i will be ALL up in that condescending, ignorant, creepy little grill of yours, you stupid little boy!!

Lol.....told you it drives me potty :p

 

THIS X 100000000

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While I am very against it as well, I now wanna do it just to annoy you :p

Oh don't. Just please.....don't :p not in the mood to fall out with anyone else on here for a while, haha.
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YES YES YES! Thank you for saying this!!! Also I HATE HATE HATE when people assume that they are my daddy or use pet names with me before I give permission to! It is so irritating!!!

 

That is actually pretty gross

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Guest pacibrat

None of those things bother me at all.  Then again, I'm not looking for a relationship so that could be the difference.  I love little talk because I am a little and little me likes to talk to other little littles. :D  I'm fine with adult conversation, but if I'm looking for a Daddy, he has to get along with little me too.  That's EXTREMELY important to me so delaying little talk wouldn't be my first choice.  I mean completely adult at the very, very beginning, fine, but a Daddy is for little me first and adult me second.

 

As far as the 18 year olds.........well, if you feel the need to go for someone 18 years old then you are doing it at your own risk.  They don't care that you'll get in trouble. They're TEENAGERS for god sake.

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 Andy, you're on to something here. But, since you not only took the image of Deadpool, but also some of his witticisms, I shall now reply to you as Deadpool until you relinquish the title. (It's not a bad gig, bro. You already got two sweeeeet reblogs on my tumblr!)

 

 In all seriousness, great points. Perhaps, as a community, we can help change the way people talk about love and sex.

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Guest SpNfan89

I'd like to add something as well. It's perfectly acceptable trying to anonymize yourself on the site, we all understand why. But if you've been talking to someone for awhile with the intention of pursuing something more and they ask to see your face before you're comfortable, don't get offended. Just say no. Getting upset about it raises some red flags, at least in my view of things. 

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