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Who/What made you realize you were little?


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I feel really silly for this but after years of knowing I was "different" than my peers I finally found a place I belong. And it was thanks to my husband (of 16 years) that I was introduced to DDlg and learned there was a name for it. Now I'm a proud little with a great Daddy and very interested in learning more. What about you?

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Guest Stinkin'ol'Fred
I was looking up online different feelings in certain situations I've been in and stumbled upon many informative sites. The more I read the more it fit with how I am and have been for a while. Like you, I never knew this was something people had a name for but since I've discovered this dynamic I've been happier and more willing to soften up when the occasion calls for it.
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I got into a relationship with a Daddy. I knew I was little, but was always too ashamed to express it to anyone. He mentioned it and it was like heaven opened up (I didn't know anything about online communities for it). Finally, I could talk to someone about it and not feel embarrassed because he understood. Not hiding little me ever again.
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I read a book that mentioned ddlg, so I googled it to find out what it was. I looked at the description of what a little girl was and realized that it mostly fit who I was (I’m naturally submissive and act a little “too young” at times)
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Guest aphroditelaughs
I had a dom that triggered everything. We brought out the qualities in each other without knowing about DDlg. I ended up doing some research after that relationship ended and I was able to place the feelings/behaviors.
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Daddy totally brought it out amd he never mentioned a dang thing. He would make comments refering to himself as "Daddy" and it didnt bother me and then a middle of the night conversation amd i spilled my guts about always feeling immature in certain aspects of life and feeling like i had to hide certain things. I told him about Bear being hidden in my closet and so many other things. I was terrified stating things and thought i was so weird and he just talked. When i was able to see him again it all just fell together.

Im still figuring things out but I'm stinkin happy.

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Guest ParanoidAsylum
I had a bit of a feeling I was since I had graduated from high school, but once I found my first mommy it was like the floodgates opened and I even surprised myself with just how much of a little I can be.
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I was always submissive, but the idea of a traditional Dom scared and intimated me. It never turned me on. Not until talking to a friend who is a little this past spring did I really come to understand that I was a little. After more research I realized I'm a middle. The idea of a Daddy is perfect for me, because there is the sweet nurturing side that I never saw with a traditional Dom. Not to mention being a middle with cute skirts, knee highs, ribbons in my hair, etc are all things that I've loved but been too shy to experiment with. 

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W/we started out ageplaying during sex a few years into O/our relationship. The more comfortable i got with being little outside of the bedroom the more i fell in love with the dynamic.
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I had a close friend that was heavily involved in BDSM, but refused to teach me how to sub, as she thought I was too sensitive for her flavor of BDSM. So she had me research dynamics that would more closely fit my personality and I came across DDlg.

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My Daddy is who made me realize I was little. We were at his place and he started asking me if I knew what a little was and so on. I said I kind of did, but that even though I like a lot of stuff littles seem to like, I don't like coloring, pink, diapers, or paci's. But as I got more comfortable with Daddy and explored this side of me, I felt a lot better and more at ease to be myself. It was a revelation to discover this side of myself.

 
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I had been in several D/s relationships before I met my Daddy. I was convinced I was just a submissive with a Sir. But he wanted to be called Daddy, and I respected that and tried for him. Over time our relationship grew into what it is now. He was so much more caring and nurturing than anyone I've been with before, and it made me feel safe enough to be myself with him. So I was able to be silly and playful without fear of judgement. I identify more as a middle, and I learned that after reading a lot of things online. While reading them I just felt like I could relate so much with how I am with my Daddy. It all just happened so naturally for me. 

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ive always pictured myself younger than i really am ! !!! i used to draw myself in diapers and a high chair all the time hehe.... and i used to read tons of stories about people being turned into babies so..! it just kind of always made sense to me haha ! !! !

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My older friend is a Mommy and she always joked around saying I was like her perfect idea of a Little so, being the curious cat that I am, I looked it up and found that she was right! My personality fit perfectly with what a Little is, after that, it's just been a quest to find my perfect Daddy :)
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I have been interested in BDSM for a while now and have been exploring the different elements of it. It was this past summer when I just happening to be reading about ddlg and it really appealed to me. Then I began to recognize the little qualities that I closely identify with! Then I began to do more and research on ddlg. I'm learning more about my little space everyday. It's like a craft that I want to perfect!!! Hehehehe
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Tbh I’ve never thought i would be a little although I’ve always been “childish” and like a little kid.

I knew what ddlg was and thought it was cute but never saw myself in it.

Until my boyfriend told me he is a daddy,

first it was weird but I love him so much and since he told me that I don’t have to do anything because I am a little already but I just didn’t realize. So I agreed calling him daddy and stuff. I began to like it A LOT

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