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First of all, sorry for the few disappointments. They are extremely common. Were these online or real relationships?

Ok, you were used for money for the first one. You sound as though you tried to buy her affection. Doesn't work. Ever. She knew you were an open wallet so took full advantage of that.

And on the second, you say you were in love after a few days? No. You weren't. You were infatuated. Desperate even. Sorry. Not trying to be negative towards you, but sometimes we need the blunt truth. You were not in love with her.

This has literally nothing to do with you being a daddy or them being littles. This is about you leaving yourself wide open to being easily used and taken for a ride.

Stop trying so hard. You will never find anything worth having if you don't take a step back and stop sending out these vibes of "hey girls, i am easy prey!"

Unfortunately the world (especially the online world) is full of players, liars and catfishers. Chill. Leave it alone for a bit.

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First of all, sorry for the few disappointments. They are extremely common. Were these online or real relationships?

Ok, you were used for money for the first one. You sound as though you tried to buy her affection. Doesn't work. Ever. She knew you were an open wallet so took full advantage of that.

And on the second, you say you were in love after a few days? No. You weren't. You were infatuated. Desperate even. Sorry. Not trying to be negative towards you, but sometimes we need the blunt truth. You were not in love with her.

This has literally nothing to do with you being a daddy or them being littles. This is about you leaving yourself wide open to being easily used and taken for a ride.

Stop trying so hard. You will never find anything worth having if you don't take a step back and stop sending out these vibes of "hey girls, i am easy prey!"

Unfortunately the world (especially the online world) is full of players, liars and catfishers. Chill. Leave it alone for a bit.

 

 

uhhhh yeah, to say the least

 

thanks for putting it so mildly

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You said "and then about a week or 2 ago i dated this girl she is a little and we had alot in common so we fell inlove".

So you fell in love within a week or two. That's what i mean by a few days.

The tone of your post does suggest desperation. Just telling you how it sounds. All any of us can do is reply to what we believe about what we read. Thats how it sounded to me.

 

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Oh, and now you've deleted your reply to me. Well, not sure why you did that, but all i am trying to do is give one opinion. If you disagree with it, that's absolutely fine. No offence was intended.

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You seem to fall in love too quick and attach yourself to people too quick.. like, ofcourse you're gonna be disappointed when you expect so much from one person and are 'in love' with them after such a short period of time..

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You said "and then about a week or 2 ago i dated this girl she is a little and we had alot in common so we fell inlove".

So you fell in love within a week or two. That's what i mean by a few days.

The tone of your post does suggest desperation. Just telling you how it sounds. All any of us can do is reply to what we believe about what we read. Thats how it sounded to me.

 

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Oh, and now you've deleted your reply to me. Well, not sure why you did that, but all i am trying to do is give one opinion. If you disagree with it, that's absolutely fine. No offence was intended.

abit of confusion on that 2 weeks ago we broke up we didnt date for just 2 weeks sorry about that and yeah i deleted the post my best friend said it would be best to just get rid of the post sorry ^^; i do appreciate your opinion

 

i know it sound like i am desperate but i wanne make a point saying that so many people get hurt and used when they are so good to the other person thats what i meant

 

like i get its reality as sad as it is but these people keep messing around with other people there feelings like its sad but yeah and it just makes me lose hope cuz when you treat somebody good and get nothing back but pain it drags your mood way down

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Yes, we all get hurt. All we are trying to do, is advise you to take it down a notch or two. The more you give, the more that type of person will take.

yeah i get that and you are right but still it hurts and no matter what you say it doesnt change that but i dont give up that fast like i am losing hope but i am not just giving up but thanks for your reply ^^

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Oh dear, he's deleted everything he posted.

> 'Hmm I wonder what the best way is to get compassion'

> *makes topic about being mad in love after a week or two, then random internet girls leaving him, typical teenage drama/unstable internet people drama, sadface.jpg*

> People reply differently than he expected

> 'BETTER SHUT DOWN THE TOPIC AND PRETEND I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. Also I will argue with everyone's opinion because clearly I am right, WHY IS NO ONE CRYING FOR ME.'

 

why would you even make this topic and then disagree/argue with what everyone says

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> 'Hmm I wonder what the best way is to get compassion'

> *makes topic about being mad in love after a week or two, then random internet girls leaving him, typical teenage drama/unstable internet people drama, sadface.jpg*

> People reply differently than he expected

> 'BETTER SHUT DOWN THE TOPIC AND PRETEND I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING. Also I will argue with everyone's opinion because clearly I am right, WHY IS NO ONE CRYING FOR ME.'

 

why would you even make this topic and then disagree/argue with what everyone says

oh great you are one of those people you dont know what happend at all and if you read what i did say above then you will see i deleted it for a reason so if you would kindly not say anything that would be great i dont need compassion that was also not the point of the post at all you are asuming thins but i guess you are just that type of person and maybe read above i clearly said thanks for you say on the topic or did you just not read anything? the point of the post is that alot of good people who treat there partner right get thrown to the side but you think that i am just trying to get atention okay then well that shows who you really are then

 

also once again you didnt read it it wastn 2 weeks its bin 2 weeks sinse it happen again read before you coment

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