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Am I a Caregiver, or is there a better term?


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I haven't actually tried anything yet, but I've gotten into a lot of fantasizing and reading kinky fiction and such. In my fantasies, I'm a sadistic mad scientist person, breaking my victim and making them helpless. I don't really imagine myself being nurturing at all. I'm not really into humiliation either, I like to imagine being very clinical and distant. I like the idea of someone being forced into a baby role as part of an experiment or something. My fantasies do involve caregiving, but it's not at all nurturing, more like the way a nurse would look after someone. (Obviously, this is fantasy, I'm not going to actually kidnap someone and do mad science stuff on them!)
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Doesn't suggest caregiver to me, lol

Its role play. Bedroom kink. Of course anyone of any identification can do all sorts of things. There is no right or wrong. But playing a sexy game doesn't mean you are any kind of person or title.

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What you explain doesnt mean in my book that your a caregiver,  You fantasize about control insome forms, might be a bedroom kink or maybe more idk. But it does taste like a dominant form.
Just in terms of DDlg , its a long shot but i dont see it.

 

Ofc roleplay can be fun and stimulating , its a great way to discover yourself, who knows what you 'll find or evolve in.

Life in any way is about discovering growing evolving, no wrong or right in that .

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For me, it also more sounds like something leaning more into BDSM, maybe a Master would be the best way to describe it...? It's definitly not being a caregiver but that's fine :) It's roleplay what you're thinking about and as long as roleplay stays roleplay, everything's fine~

 

( Just a Little advice on the way because you were talking about experiments with the mind and breaking them... : Not everything you imagine in your mind world in the real world! It can, if not done carefully and with a lot of communication, harm the person's psyche for real. Also, difficult things like cutting should only be done if you know exactly how it works. And I don't talk about reading a few topics on fetlife...I for myself would only feel safe with a chirugist but that's because Just milimetre more to a side can end pretty badly......there are a lot of fantasies I have about roleplay as well, so I can understand you, but some of mine are also simply not possible :)

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