Any South African's out there?
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Posted 18 April 2018 - 10:42 AM
Any SA people still around?
DDlg is small in the larger scheme of things, even smaller where we are from.
Im guilty too of vanishing for months on end after doing what feels like bashing your head against a wall trying to find people to connect with.
Though this really does not help, the pattern seems to be that ddlg's or people curious about the lifestyle pop in, have a look - see its dead and then logout and never come back. There are not many of us, but if we aren't as active as we can be within our capacity, every new comer or curious searcher will pop in and leave shortly after, I would like to see this remedied. Even if we pick up a single user a month or two, that grows our community.
Trying to be optimistic here, but a community doesn't come out of nowhere, I think we all need to start being a bit more proactive on this if we have any hope of forming something here, let alone finding friends/partners/daddys/mommys/littles.
So if you are still here I encourage you to respond and for all of us to start interacting a bit more.
If you are a newcomer or a guest reading this, I encourage you to join, get active, drop messages, send friend requests.
And I encourage all of us to try stick this out, check in from time to time - as frequently as you can.
If you have a fetlife profile, link it, if you have KiK (Its not really popular over here, but get it anyway) and link it. (available in edit profile)
I think its important we try be visible and as available as possible, not just for the few already here but for the ones who pop in and leave because it looks quiet and empty.
That's my two cents. Hope to get you and more people on board.
ddlg south africa
EDIT: I suggest also turning your email notifications on, don't miss a single thing, never know what is slipping away.
DDlg South Africa
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