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umm u can only get his attention if he actually wants to give it to u. It already sounds like u do a ton to try to get his focus on u, but it still doesn't make him pay attention to u. Have u ever considered asking him why? Or is he really just that busy? If he is just that busy, then clearly those things are a priority for him, and as the past have shown, there is nothing for u to do to distract him when his focus and desires are elsewhere. If u really need more time, talk with him and arrange for u to get more. Otherwise the pattern will continue.
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The simple answer is just don't do it. Everyone has lives and things that they need to do and they don't always have time to put things down and answer a text message every two minutes. That gets too disruptive when doing a task and can make it take far too long to do. You need to realise that he'll answer when he's able. Spamming him is unreasonable and a lot of people get tired of that pretty quickly. Think it through and be logical - he would reply if he could. Find something you enjoy doing to distract yourself until he is available. 

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Long ago they used to say idle hands were the devils work.  In other words, when you have a lot of empty time to worry you get in trouble.  So fill your empty time with things that you will get to tell your Daddy about later.  Color pictures or do chores or whatever makes him happy.  Find some other little friends on here that you can chat with.  There are plenty to choose from and somebody will match up with you.  This way you are busy and have less time to be a pain.  Plus when you do get Daddy time you have plenty to talk about instead of how lonely and worried.  Think how it will be - you can tell him I colored this or did these chores.  I know Daddy time is best when its positve.

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Soooo agree with these replies, when we first got together I would cry everytime I had to leave my daddy and cry myself to sleep most nights until I saw him again, once I discovered I was a little I found so many good resources and coping strategies and now I take such pride in keeping busy through out the week because I know it makes my daddy (and me) happy. As silly as it sounds chores have become my new favourite thing- i feel proud and accomplished and i get to feel like a good girl when daddy praises me, and he feels relaxed knowing that his little girl is keeping busy and not a blubbering mess :p
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