Advice for a new little??

[Finkletoppers]

Hi. I'm new to all of this. I was interested in being a little for a very long time, but I was too afraid to act on it. But then I met my papa. He had no idea what ddlg was but he's always sweet and open minded so we tried it and found out we both greatly enjoy it. ♥️♥️

 

I was just wondering if you had any tips on being a little, or anything you wish you knew/helped you in the beginning. Also places to buy little things/clothes, activities you like to do with daddy, things you were surprised you liked, etc.

 

Nice to meet you! Thanks in advance.

[Guest sweet.sophie]

One thing that I wish I knew in the beginning was to just be myself!! You don't have to meet any requirements for being a little, you just have to be comfortable with it. No little is like the other in my opinion, and what works for one might not work for the other. It's a pretty long journey i guess to find out what kind of little you really are, but just make the whole thing your own

[Guest stuffies-princess]

I have to agree ^
Be yourself is the best advice

[TwilightSparklez]

As everyone has said be yourself, but these resources could also help:

 

This is my personal favorite: https://www.domsub.life/

 

And if that doesn't have what you are looking for, try these:

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/660-ideas-for-beginners/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3056-transitioning-from-a-vanilla-to-ddlg-relationship/

[LittleKitten13]

I agree with everyone else, about just being yourself!  Also, I think it's super cool that you call your daddy papa!  I call mine papa as well, but I haven't seen many people do that.

[SharkPrince]

I find that clothes with muted colours and patterns similar to what my mother would dress me in as a child would help me get into little space.

Etsy is always good to but ddlg stuffs, and onesiesdownunder do some nice onesies