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ok um there's been a lot going on and I've been caught up in a lot of stuff. the first time i blocked daddy out was a few days ago and that's because crap going down at school and i just wanted to be alone. and yesterday i didn't get to answer him except a good morning because my internet is a bitch. and i know he thinks im ignoring him but im not. im just freaking out that he will find someone that will always be there when he responds. does anybody have advise about how i should approach the situation????/

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People can go through a lot of stuff and sometimes, they need sometime to themselves to help process that - it's perfectly natural. You're daddy will probably will feel upset, he will want to help you and yet he feels totally helpless. However, he will understand, we all feel like that sometimes, but it is no reason to replace you over.

 

Stay calm and just try to explain to him why you need some time to yourself and that your internet plays up c:

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all I can say is first always do what makes you happy if its that important to you this should help ok if it was my little and me same situation my little would tell me "daddy you know i want to make you happy and im trying my hardest but its the stupid internets fault can you please fix my internet so i can keep you happy"    that way the ball is in his court he has to accept the fact you are trying or fix your internet either way i hope this helps :)  if not im sorry  thats just my experience :)

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Couple of things.  I'd say that 75% of the problems on here are solved with better communication.  If you need some down time, then let him know that's what you need and there are no problems with the two of you.

 

If you have to worry about him getting somebody new, how protected does that make you feel.  First rule of being a Daddy - your Little always needs to feel safe and protected.

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I would personally start by sending an apology and letting him know what happened since he's worried you're ignoring him. It's really easy to just say "sorry life got overwhelming and I needed time out." And say that next time you will try communicate better what's going on (but only if you mean it). 

 

This is just a communication problem and is super easy to fix. I'm sure he'll understand when you need space and that sometimes your internet plays up, but you have to explain it to him. :)

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Blocking him for no reason is a great way to lose someone. You are probably going to need something stronger than a mere apology to make it up to him
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Baby girl it's fine if you want alone time just tell me and I know your internet is bad right now and I will never leave you you are my everything my whole world 

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