alright I just realized a month ago that im a daddy because the girl i was with discovered she was a little we have been together 10 yrs w kids not married but heres the catch i had a affair 6 years ago with hurt her so a month ago she said she wanted to break up and then she left for the night came back the next day wanted to act like nothing happened so im thinking i hurt her so i had it coming whatever but she wants to run off with whoever whenever and im suppose to be ok with it so we still live together im getting me back in order now exploring what makes me happy but she wants to move out and at this point im feeling why not you aint making me happy. so im pretty stressed out but it will be all good in the end everything happens for a reason and thats the short and sweet version of how i got here. the part that really gets me is that she was sneaking around and lieing for 2 years before she even told me she was a little. even though im a daddy and she is a little we dont have that dynamic because of the previous "vanilla" relationship and her being a little for two years without me knowing idk but thats the jist of it any advice would be appreciated
Edited by allen246, 01 March 2018 - 10:03 AM.