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I know this topic exists somewhere but I couldn't find it. 

 

It's been a bit under a year since my little's suicide. 

 

We only dated for 8 months before it happened, and I was getting over it for a while. But for some reason I had a dream about her yesterday and I've been pretty depressed all day. 

 

I've been ready to move on for a few months now. I disappeared from my friends and life for a while afterwards but I've been slowly getting back into normalicy. 

 

I remember some other Daddies have experienced the death of a little.

 

I know it gets better, because I've healed a lot in the past year. But like today sometimes the hurt does come back, and my heart breaks a little. 

 

I'm sorry for being depressing. 

 

Hope everyone is well. 

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Guest aphroditelaughs
The thing about traumatic death is that it does not go away, but it gets softer. It's not linear nor does it make sense. Give yourself time and keep moving forward like you are. I hope your day improves ❤️
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Guest Be safe

It's been 16 months for me, it never goes away. I lived everyday just to see her smile, and the tears still come.

Keep the memories close to your heart and work on making new ones. I hope things get better for you.

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It's been 16 months for me, it never goes away. I lived everyday just to see her smile, and the tears still come.

Keep the memories close to your heart and work on making new ones. I hope things get better for you.

Thank you. Same to you. 

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I know its a post for daddies, i just wanted to come and say how sorry i am for you having to deal with such a loss. I am honestly sorry for that. :(

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When my Mom passed away I took the time to start writing "I Will Always Remember".  It was all the fun, special or interesting things that made her who she was.  I had relatives and friends add on to it.  Its easy to get focused onto the last difficult part of a persons life and forget all the good times.  Take the time to write those things down, so you can focus more on the good than the sad.  You are never really gone unless you are forgotten.

Donate time or money to something that would have made her happy.

If it had been you who died, what would you have wanted her to do?  You'd have wanted her to go on with her life and find some happiness.  I am sure that she would have wanted the same for you.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I've never lost a partner, but I have lost many friends to suicide and it's one of the worst things I have experienced, so you have all of my sympathies. It's one of those things you never get over, but you learn to move forward with time and focus on the positive memories you have rather than the pain of the loss. So I'm glad to hear you are getting back to normalcy, and I hope you can get back on track soon after this. I dream of my friends too sometimes and it can really throw you off. 

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i had my daddy die about 2 years, im with someone new now but the thought of him is still there and still hurts....i understand where you're coming from and i promise, it gets better. just give it some time and it'll ease up. hope you feel better soon.

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Guest littlegirl707

Oh my I'm so sorry for your loss. i have had alot of loss in my life. If you ever need to talk I'm here to be your listening ear. I lost three of my kids. I'm writing a artical for a parents magazine. Sending u a huge hug. I'm really sorry for yourr loss This made me cry for you.

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Guest AlisonS23
Dealing with death of a partner or friends or family is one of the hardest things to do. I’m my opinion it isn’t something you can just get over. Or something that the feelings will just go away. You have to cope properly and that’s hard to say how because everyone copes differently. I can say though talking has helped me a ton if you ever need to talk. My kik is cuppycake013.
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