
Does the “1950s” house wife.......
#1
Guest_CTDaddy4LittleG_*
Posted 21 May 2018 - 10:37 AM
I feel like the submission and other stuff is similar but maybe it’s a completely different thing- I haven’t seen it really given a name besides “1950s style house wife.”
Is there more the this kink and it’s relation if any- to DDLG?
#2
Guest_kinosis1979_*
Posted 21 May 2018 - 11:11 AM
1950s housewife is exactly what I am looking for!
- Barbiedolly likes this
#3
Posted 21 May 2018 - 11:23 AM
I think in this day and age thats sort of an unrealistic expectation. Let alone common enough to be considered a "kink"
- PizzaOnARoof likes this
#4
Guest_infinitecases_*
Posted 21 May 2018 - 11:24 AM
I don't think its something directly related to DDLG - submission across most of BDSM might be pointing you towards the same thing if you're thinking along those lines?
It's less of a kink for me, more just what I want out of life and to be like a '1950s housewife' and I find this has no relation to me being a little whatsoever however does relate a lot to me being a sub. Everything almost intertwines for me, however I don't associate being little and little space with that, more so with my D/S relationship with my Daddy instead, since it's a traditional family setup and I have as much responsibility as Daddy to look after the family and make sure he's happy/tending to his needs. You can definitely fit it into your lifestyle if that's what you want! It fits perfectly in mine, but of course, your little would also want to have the same thing as everyone has different preferences!
#5
Guest_SUeB_*
Posted 21 May 2018 - 11:29 AM
#6
Posted 21 May 2018 - 12:13 PM
- CuriousAndLittle and Ayla like this
#7
Guest_CTDaddy4LittleG_*
Posted 21 May 2018 - 12:20 PM
I think I was meant for a different decade lol!
I wonder how long DDLG has been around or if there is any “history” to it.
Edited by CTDaddy4LittleG, 21 May 2018 - 12:21 PM.
#8
Posted 21 May 2018 - 12:28 PM
#9
Guest_Arc_*
Posted 21 May 2018 - 02:59 PM
Like everything, it can fit if you want it. There's no right or wrong way to do things. It's what you want and what you make of it.
#10
Posted 21 May 2018 - 05:05 PM
Something that may be of interest to u is the Gorean community in the Master/slave dynamic. The ideals are super gender driven with men basically being 'head of house' and very traditional in its expectations of how men and woman behave. It can fit ur 1950's fantasy or ideal lifestyle very well. Besides that, perhaps u can look into service subs as they often enjoy providing service like that of a housewife. I find what u speak of mostly common in Master/slave, Owner/pet, or regular D/s. Not so much DD/lg, but it can exist. It's very common for ppl to be more than 1 type of Dominant, or more than 1 type of submissive. u can be a mix of things and so can ur little. Everything can fit together beautifully when u truly find someone compatible.
The Gorean dynamic is quite beautiful if a Master/Slave dynamic is what you desire (not directed to OP - just stating in general). Their life is filled with rituals, symbolism, devoting and a lot more that happens within typical D/s or M/s dynamics. They even have specific colored attire for the slave to wear depending on the occurrence; greeting the Master, day-to-day, having guests over, going out for familial commitments, going out for fun, etc. Its so gorgeous to watch these members work in their lifestyle because most people would consider it an extreme version of M/s.
As for the 1950's lifestyle; I know a lot of kinksters who want this style because it truly enforces the D/s dynamic. The man provides and the woman takes care of him. The man protects the woman, and the woman appreciates him. The man provides structure and safety, the woman takes that and creates a home. Together they create both sides of the equation and quite a few Doms and subs love this set up.
I think it is a Schrödinger's Kink - It isn't a kink until a person realizes the power play that works for them. Even back in the 50's, the men had all the power. Women went from their first Dominant Male figure (Their father or grandfather or uncle, etc) straight to their husband's house. And that is where they stayed. The men had the power and the women provided them comfort. Together they built a relationship and home.
Edited by Little Illy, 21 May 2018 - 05:19 PM.
- PinkiePie🐩 likes this
#11
Guest_BabyPeach_*
Posted 21 May 2018 - 06:26 PM
Even back in the 50's, the men had all the power. Women went from their first Dominant Male figure (Their father or grandfather or uncle, etc) straight to their husband's house. And that is where they stayed. The men had the power and the women provided them comfort. Together they built a relationship and home.
I think the key words here are "and that is where they stayed". Divorce wasn't so easy, and rampant, back then. These days, it's so easy for a man to leave and the woman who has been a devoted housewife with no career has to start from the bottom and somehow try to make up for lost time in the workforce. Gone are the days of alimony.
With that said, no it isn't a kink. I'm actually more of a traditionalist when it comes to a relationship (besides the fact that I think EVERYONE, man or woman, should be able to support themselves well financially and have their own money). I don't do yard work, etc. That's a man's job. I cook dinner and serve a good meal. That's a woman's job. Can a man make dinner? Of course, it's endearing. Omg, I've gotten off track, lol. My point is, is that even before I was into DDlg, BDSM, etc. that's how I was.
I guess it can also come down to how you were raised. I was raised in a southern home to be pretty, engaging, pleasing, well put together and to assume a traditional female role in a household.
#12
Posted 21 May 2018 - 06:33 PM
I guess it can also come down to how you were raised. I was raised in a southern home to be pretty, engaging, pleasing, well put together and to assume a traditional female role in a household.
Only in my opinion - I am not belittling your position! - but for those of us who haven't lived in the "traditional" household or with those values passed down, this can easily be a kink.
For me, for instance. I have 3 degrees, plan on getting 2 advanced degrees, have a career, start an international business, etc. However, for me, the thought of 1950's household is nothing but oppression because of what you mentioned above (how the women were stuck). But, for a woman like me it IS a kink because it is so abnormal for my normal mentality. And it is a kink to me because it fits with the D/s dynamic I crave (TPE). So for me, it works as a kink. For someone who grew up with a "traditional" lifestyle, this wouldn't be a kink, it would be a normal way of life.
That is why I called it Schrödinger's Kink; it is independent to each person to how the react to this lifestyle. For me it is a kink, for you it would be seen as normal. So it either is a kink or is not depending on the person!
Also, the quotes around traditional is only because it varies from person to person what traditional is - I am in no way devaluing someone's traditions.
Edited by Little Illy, 21 May 2018 - 06:34 PM.
- PinkiePie🐩 likes this
#13
Posted 21 May 2018 - 06:38 PM
#14
Posted 21 May 2018 - 07:03 PM
0 user(s) are reading this topic
0 members, 0 guests, 0 anonymous users