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just came out as a little to my SO, unsure how to go into little space with them there, help?!


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i recently came out as a little to my daddy around 2 days ago, and you have no idea how hard that was. i felt embarrassed, i think more than i should have. but you have no idea how excited he was about it, he even told me he had been secretly hoping i was a little for the longest time. he's doing all the things a good daddy should, which makes me so happy. he's asked a lot of questions too, like if i have a little space, what age i am in little space, etc. but the thing is,, i'm still a little embarrassed. he's the first person I've ever told about this. and it feels really new having someone know, let alone accept me for it. but he really wants to see me in little space, and i never said specifically no, and he's definitely not pushy about it either. i want to go into little space for him, but i feel like that's embarrassing and i'm not sure i want him to see me like that, and i wouldn't want to annoy him while i'm in it, even though he's made sure that i know he'll never judge me and he'll be the best daddy he possibly can be for me, and that he just wants me to be myself and never hide any parts of me from him. and trust me, i want to be able to do that, but i just can't get rid of that pesky self consciousness i have.

any suggestions on how to feel open and safe when going into little space with someone for the first time? 

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Guest Babykitkat 23

I would suggest maybe talking to your Dom about it. By the way you tell your story, he loves and accepts you for you. I know that feeling of being embarrassed about my self, Ive had that same thing happen when I was with old vanilla relationships. Just calm your self down and know that your dom loves you for who you are. Talk with your dom and see if you can both find the root of your embarressment. 

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This is one of those times when you got to get into less thinking and more doing.  Do the things you like to as a little with him.  Snuggle up and watch a Disney movie (watch the movie and enjoy the snuggles; I'm positive that he's going to like this a lot).  Build a blanket fort and both you get in a color and eat things that make you feel little or have sippy cup if that's you.  He sounds like a good Daddy in the making and these are the building blocks to get you there.

 

First time you get naked with somebody its really awkward, but once that two of you get busy that goes away.  After that first time a lot of the awkwardness goes away.  Then getting busy becomes fun.  Just like getting past this awkward stage with your Daddy and get busy doing Little things together.

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