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Hi all. I apologise firstly if this is in the wrong group but it is just a generic question.
How do people feel about height differences in their dynamics? I feel like a smaller little and bigger caregiver is what is usually expected but how do people feel about a caregiver being shorter than their little? I can kinda see if there is especially a switch dynamic that a shorter little may switch to be the caregiver of their big/switch but what about in non-switch roles where the caregiver is the shorter one?

Does it enhance or make the dynamic any more awkward when it comes to cuddles and other activities or does it not matter to you? I'm just really curious that's all :p 

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Guest Dulci

In general; I'm attracted to men who are taller than me! I'm not exactly short - I'm 5'10 so feeling "little" sometimes is really difficult for me anyway! So for me, a CG who's shorter than me, might be a bit difficult.

 

That being said, if, the person was all the things I was looking for, funny ect. It would not phase me. After all, it's only height.... just might mean I couldn't  wear my heels :p 

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Guest Georgia-Daddy2
I have actually never had this happen. I'm 6'1 and haven't seen many girls taller than me. It is definitely an interesting question.
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I definitely prefer guys taller than me. I have never dated anyone shorter than 5'11. I'm only 5'3 so it's easy to find guys taller. I had an ex who was 6'4. That was awesome hehe. But I definitely would prefer a daddy taller to make me feel little.
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Nothing to do with the dynamic for me, i am simply not at all attracted to men who are shorter than me. That was one of my "hard limits" when looking for a partner
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Guest Looby-Lou

Well this crops up with me pretty much all the time as I'm 5'11", or maybe 6'. 

I'm actually very "petite" in my build despite my height. 

My height doesn't stop me feeling little, but I think it can put off Daddies. On here there seems to be a definite preference for short, tiny "girls".

OTOH if a guy is put off by the fact that I'm tall, then he simply isn't right for me anyway. But it does make life harder, even in vanilla dating.

It's kind of nice if a guy is taller than me, but honestly if he's a couple of inches shorter that's fine with me too. I long ago gave up worrying about something that I can't change!

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Guest BabyGlitterMilk
as much as I like feeling small next to a tall person, it’s not a dealbreaker for me if I’m the taller one. After all, I’m pretty tall myself!!
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I actually prefer it if my Daddy were taller than me. Being at the average height of 5'6", I've always been attracted to guys that are taller, as it makes me feel little.
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Guest aphroditelaughs
I prefer taller partners. That said, a difference of an inch or two isn't a deal breaker. My preference relates to my dynamic, as it's easier to get into little space with a size difference.
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I'm 5'10 so it can be hard sometimes to find someone taller than me. I do like taller guys but height isn't a deal breaker for me. It's actually pretty far down the list of what's important for me. The right person can make you feel small without being physically small, and that's more important to me. 

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Guest AlisonS23

I definitely like having a taller daddy. The tallest I’ve dated was 6”5. The shortest I’ve dated is 5”9. I’m 5”2 almost 5”3 so it’s not too hard to find a taller guy but the taller the better. 6”5 has to be my favorite height difference so far.

 

The reason why for me is because it helps me feel little. They look down on you and it just adds to the dynamic. And hugging a Daddy who is significantly taller just feels so right to me. Or being picked up by a taller guy. Amazing.

 

Obviously though it’s preference. To each their own.

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I'm 5'10 so it can be hard sometimes to find someone taller than me.

 

Im 172cm... hard, yeah lol

 

The talest I dated was 205cm.

 

For me it doesn't matter if he is shorter... he just need to be stronger lol

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