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I'm lonely and sad... Everyone is happy with there daddy's but I guess I don't stand out..... I really want someone to take care of me and love me... Can any littles help me.....
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Finding the right Dom is a lengthy process, but you'll be happier if you don't settle for any old Dom. You need to find one that fits you, just like Dom's need to find someone to fit them. And you know, that Dom isn't always going to be able to take care of you. Sadly, in most long distance relationships it's hard to find times when you can both talk, like Sir and I. He just got promoted to full time and well... Apparently his mother upped his rent and this is the second month (not in a row, there was a gap in between thankfully) that he hasn't been able to pay his phone bill and so, I have to try and wait for him. Even when he had payed his bill he was working all the time and we haven't been able to actually talk and have. Conversation for quite some time. My point is, you just have to take your time and understand that a Dom won't completely fill that emptiness you're feeling.
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I'm going through the same thing! But when I ask people about it, they say I should just wait it out and get to know lots of people especially on this forum. I'm sure there's lots of people on here who are willing to support you until you find that 'someone'. 

 

It's a waiting game! :D x

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DD/lg isn't just about having a daddy. You can enjoy your little space by yourself. :3 you don't need to have someone.  And please don't feel like you need a daddy. Thats how a lot of people end up being abused. Is because they become really desperate. 

 

Also as everyone else has said, the best relationships start out as friendships. Then if both parities have feelings for each other it turns to a relationship, and then DD/lg could be introduce. 

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I'm going through the same feelings now. My last daddy used me and while I'm desperate for attention from a daddy, I also know I need to take my time and get to know someone before jumping into a relationship. My issue is that I do not want an online relationship when there aren't too many daddies in my area (on this site, fetlife, tumblr etc...)

My advice is to take your time before getting into a relationship.

Hope it works out well for you!!!

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I feel your feels love but like everyone has said you want to find the right daddy not just any daddy and that takes time.

 

It's okay to be little by yourself and while it can be lonely it can also be very rewarding to explore that side of yourself and learn new things about you.

 

Eventually you'll find your daddy, we all will I'm sure. Just be patient and wait for the right one. A little time and patience is better than rushing into something and ending up with a broken heart,

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Before you 'find a daddy' I suggest you find a partner. Finding a daddy right off the bat doesn't sound too good of an idea.. I know that my boyfriend and I were together for a while before we accepted our relationship as a dd/lg relationship. Remember- submission is earned. If you give yourself to some dominant right away, it could be dangerous. Try finding a boyfriend first before finding a legit daddy. It may take some trial and error, but you'll get it. Take time to get to know your partner to see if he carries good traits and if he would be a proper daddy. A bad daddy can lead to some very bad problems! :( I'm not trying to discourage you, but look out for you well-being. There are many littles looking for a daddy, so remember... You are not alone! There are also many daddies looking for a special little.. And many daddies who have yet to discover they are a daddy to a very special girl.. Good luck! ^o^
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i can relate to wanting a daddy! i don't have one either! but like a few people have said on here - you can explore your little space, only with yourself, and still feel good about it, even if you're alone. of course it gets lonely, i know that for sure, i get really lonely too... but first you have to find someone you can trust, not just any old daddy. someone who will treat you nice, make you feel good, make you smile! it's good to be picky in this situation. if you ever feel sad and want another little friend, i'm here for you and we can talk! always! xo, xo, xo.

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I know some people who have Daddies, but they aren't necessarily happy :( They are either used or not given the sufficient attention a Daddy should give their little. It does take time, sweetie. No worries though! You have other littles here for you :3

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