Guest lilprincess1703 Posted July 24, 2018 Report Share Posted July 24, 2018 so me and my partner/daddy are in a temporary ldr - he's been away for work for a few months. he'll be back in about a month which I CANNOT WAIT FOR... BUT i have found that him being away has meant that whenever I find myself falling into little space, it makes me sad My little identity is so tied with him, that feeling little without him makes me feel like im missing a part of me. I obviously miss him all the time, regardless of the ddlg side of things - he's my partner after all! but feeling little and missing him feels a little bit worse and more intense somehow. When I'm big, I can accept that Im going to miss him, and do, but can rationalise things - can tell myself he'll be back soon, that time will go quickly, that I have lots to do between now and then etc etc. but when I'm little, it all seems scary and long and hopeless.... Has any one else experienced this? and is this something I need to address, do people think? I only really 'discovered' my little side fully since being with him - do I maybe have to explore and enjoy my little side by myself? OR maybe I am over thinking this :') any thoughts welcome loves!!! xxxxx<3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest QueenJellybean Posted July 24, 2018 Report Share Posted July 24, 2018 man, oh man, do i identify with this. one of my caregiver-types is long distance as well, but it's more permanent than yours. we only get to see each other in person about twice a year, so the majority of our interactions are online. do you have contact with your partner while he's away? i've got some ideas that you might find valuable! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest lilprincess1703 Posted July 25, 2018 Report Share Posted July 25, 2018 So we can't be in contact as much as we'd like. The place he's in, and type of work hes doing, means that access to reliable internet connection, and free time for him WITH internet access isnt as frequent as we'd like. Plus we're dealing with a time difference on top of that. so we have some contact but it's fleeting! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest QueenJellybean Posted July 25, 2018 Report Share Posted July 25, 2018 i'd suggest asking him, when you do have the time, for little tasks. save them up like stock piles! for your sad times! stuff like coloring him a picture & sending it. getting dressed a certain way for him & sending photos. maybe recording something for him. ask him to record something for you, too! like telling you a story! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lola Step Posted July 25, 2018 Report Share Posted July 25, 2018 As Babyjelly bean suggested above, perhaps you could both just film a bunch of videos when you DO have the time/connection etc; and make like a little stockpile or try to save watching them like ration yourself to one a day he could read you stories or you could make up a funny play with your stuffies and film it, there are so many possibilities Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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