Middles?

[Graceunnie]

As a middle myself I don't find many other middles! How do you all feel about middles? Ever had one? Love em? Whats your prefered middle age? 

[Guest You're adorable.]

Hmmm. I am pretty sure that there are quite some topic on middles on this forum, but it doesn't hurt to ask and it's good to see what people think and/or prefer.

 

As for me, I've never had one and can't even say that I ever spoke to one even on a platonic level. I am, however, quite intrugued by them.  As it's often said, every little is different and special, but there are certain similarities that still hold true for every little. With middles, from what I have read, not necessarily observed, things can be very different. I guess the first difference with a middle would be her attitude, since children of age 8-15 already "have their own head" as we say in our country, so I guess the rebelious attitude would be more prominent, and I really do enjoy the ocassional rebelion and brattiness. I sometimes even provoke it.

 

I think that the above paragraph also answers the question how I feel about middles a little bit. I am interested in them and I think it would be really pleasant experience for me, as something new and intriguing always is. And also, on the other hand, I think it would definitely open new horizons for me as a caregiver and make me see things from a different perspective.

 

As for the preffered middle age, since I have never interacted with a middle, I can't tell. But judging from the behavior of actual kids, I think it would be somwhere around 12. Plus minus a year or two. I think this is an age where the more subtle personality traits are formed and they start to act more mature, but the childish and playful behaviour is still largely present, which I think gives a very nice contrast to the whole thing.

 

Also, on your remark of middles being rare, yes, they are. But rather than being upset that there is not as many people like you, you should think about yourself as quite special and interesting in that way. Don't let your difference let you down.

[Graceunnie]

Hmmm. I am pretty sure that there are quite some topic on middles on this forum, but it doesn't hurt to ask and it's good to see what people think and/or prefer.

 

As for me, I've never had one and can't even say that I ever spoke to one even on a platonic level. I am, however, quite intrugued by them.  As it's often said, every little is different and special, but there are certain similarities that still hold true for every little. With middles, from what I have read, not necessarily observed, things can be very different. I guess the first difference with a middle would be her attitude, since children of age 8-15 already "have their own head" as we say in our country, so I guess the rebelious attitude would be more prominent, and I really do enjoy the ocassional rebelion and brattiness. I sometimes even provoke it.

 

I think that the above paragraph also answers the question how I feel about middles a little bit. I am interested in them and I think it would be really pleasant experience for me, as something new and intriguing always is. And also, on the other hand, I think it would definitely open new horizons for me as a caregiver and make me see things from a different perspective.

 

As for the preffered middle age, since I have never interacted with a middle, I can't tell. But judging from the behavior of actual kids, I think it would be somwhere around 12. Plus minus a year or two. I think this is an age where the more subtle personality traits are formed and they start to act more mature, but the childish and playful behaviour is still largely present, which I think gives a very nice contrast to the whole thing.

 

Also, on your remark of middles being rare, yes, they are. But rather than being upset that there is not as many people like you, you should think about yourself as quite special and interesting in that way. Don't let your difference let you down.

I really try to not let it get me down, but with so many littles around, and a few middles far and few between sometimes its discouraging. Not that there is anything wrong with littles, i love all members of the DDLG community, i just fear that me being the rare middle i am, if i were to find a Daddy with some experience with littles, he wouldnt be able to handle me quite well as middles needs can quite often be very different, as you said, than littles. But all in good mind I love being a middle and wouldnt have it any other way

[WhysperKit]

hi hi ^^ I'm a Middle primarily. I have some ABDL/Little tendencies but being a Middle far outweighs them o3o I think if I had to pin down an age, I would say somewhere between 13-15? ish... 

[Guest littlemarmar]

I'm mostly middle, Graceunnie. You're not alone . 

 

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[SharkPrince]

As someone who switches through many, many, many different headspaces I understand how it feels to think you'll never fit into the community but it's not something you should worry about too much. Littles and Middles are fundamentally a similar sort of escape and I doubt that any daddy would have major problems in being with a little over being with a middle. A lot of people don't even make the distinction between the two.

 

Hmmm. I am pretty sure that there are quite some topic on middles on this forum, but it doesn't hurt to ask and it's good to see what people think and/or prefer.

 

As for me, I've never had one and can't even say that I ever spoke to one even on a platonic level. I am, however, quite intrugued by them.  As it's often said, every little is different and special, but there are certain similarities that still hold true for every little. With middles, from what I have read, not necessarily observed, things can be very different. I guess the first difference with a middle would be her attitude, since children of age 8-15 already "have their own head" as we say in our country, so I guess the rebelious attitude would be more prominent, and I really do enjoy the ocassional rebelion and brattiness. I sometimes even provoke it.

 

I think that the above paragraph also answers the question how I feel about middles a little bit. I am interested in them and I think it would be really pleasant experience for me, as something new and intriguing always is. And also, on the other hand, I think it would definitely open new horizons for me as a caregiver and make me see things from a different perspective.

 

As for the preffered middle age, since I have never interacted with a middle, I can't tell. But judging from the behavior of actual kids, I think it would be somwhere around 12. Plus minus a year or two. I think this is an age where the more subtle personality traits are formed and they start to act more mature, but the childish and playful behaviour is still largely present, which I think gives a very nice contrast to the whole thing.

 

Also, on your remark of middles being rare, yes, they are. But rather than being upset that there is not as many people like you, you should think about yourself as quite special and interesting in that way. Don't let your difference let you down.

 

I actually identified almost only as a middle when I first appeared here so I guess you have spoken to a middle ^-^

[Guest Kit.]

I'm a Switch, but when I'm not in the Dom head space, I'm a Middle as well. It doesn't really bother me not seeing many other Middles in comparison to Littles, but it does get tiresome when people forget that this group exists and kind of lump everyone into one group.

[Guest Mossy]

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Edited September 13, 2018 by Mossy

[Guest Just A Mentor]

I've grown to prefer middles. They don't require as much attention as a little. And with my schedule, giving a little the attention and affection they require, isn't always possible.

[daddyslittleprincess23]

Im a middle!!!

[MerryBrat]

[krystalfox]

Hey!

 

I honestly don’t know much about the specific age ranges for littles, but I think I’m both? I experience a variety of headspaces, I can go from 10-17.

[Frog]

I actually prefer middles (bratty or not, though sometimes I think I prefer brats). There's nothing necessarily wrong with littles, though. There's a list of reasons I like middles, and it might turn into a very long reply.

[Kaiser]

I actually prefer middles (bratty or not, though sometimes I think I prefer brats). There's nothing necessarily wrong with littles, though. There's a list of reasons I like middles, and it might turn into a very long reply.

I'll gladly add 3 volumes of why middles are super awesome to whatever you write.

 

 

Except for the brat part.

Edited July 30, 2018 by Kaiser

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

i just fear that me being the rare middle i am, if i were to find a Daddy with some experience with littles, he wouldnt be able to handle me quite well as middles needs can quite often be very different, as you said, than littles.

 

Middle checking in.  I wouldn't worry about this, there are lots of daddys who prefer middles. 

[Quirkygrl16]

I lean more towards middle tendencies during every day and little at night..so kinda like 6-10ish or 12 ish

[DaemonFaerie]

Middle here!!! I'm quite new to DDlg but I know myself pretty well and I'd guess I'm anywhere between 9 and 15 depending on a bunch of things. During my period of self discovery and then the resulting research, I saw a lot of posts by really young littles (between 1 & 3) and while I see nothing wrong with their lifestyle and that it really does work for them, I know a lot of it won't work for me. It can get a bit disheartening to rarely see things that you can relate to but you gotta know you're not alone I'd be happy to chat with you or just listen to a good vent if you'd like to add me. Us middles gotta stick together

[Graceunnie]

I actually prefer middles (bratty or not, though sometimes I think I prefer brats). There's nothing necessarily wrong with littles, though. There's a list of reasons I like middles, and it might turn into a very long reply.

haha i dont mind at all! Lemme hear em!

[XmochiX]

I'm a middle as well, but I often find myself in little space. When asked, I usually say my little age ranges from 4-14.

[Bingbongsfriend]

I’m a middle, around the ages 10-12 because of the things I like to wear and do. Not really into the baby stuff, but could see myself trying it one day. Being a middle don’t have the responsibilities or worries of someone older, but not too young to want everything done for you.Years ago used to be into colouring, painting with water books, Elmo and Sesame Street stuff, but have moved on a bit from that. Got rid of the Elmo duvet and got a frozen one, my IRL mother things that is an improvement.

 

Now into stuffies to the point were I’m not allowed to buy more as they take up too much space, so buy plush dog toys instead. Into watching cartoons, lately watching Regular Show. Sister won’t let me watch them without her. Like many Disney movies, favourite Inside Out. Also like Frozen, Toy Story series, Alice in Wonderland, Beauty and the Beast (the 1992 one) and many more.

 

Being quite small, can fit 10-12 girl’s clothes which is a lot of fun. Love girl’s floral and party dresses, getting far too many to hide easily. Find girls sleepwear fits so well it is great to sleep in. Like skinny and girlie sweatshirts.  Have a bit of obsession with one-piece swimsuits, just love the look and sensations from wearing them. Have lots of girls underwear. Was really jealous of the clothes my younger sister used to wear and used to try on a lot of here clothes. Should have been born a girl, but it didn’t work out that way.

[Frog]

haha i dont mind at all! Lemme hear em!

Thanks for that. Maybe one day I will do just that. 

[Quinaveer]

[Maids]

I have found that my 'big self' is more middle, my 'big-big' self only comes out when I have to be serious... other than that I act like a teenager lol.

I am both a middle and a little. Somedays I'm more resilient to Daddy's demands and shrug off my rules - typical 16-17 year old girl things, I guess!  You're definitely not alone, don't feel excluded! You should feel proud of yourself for feeling as though you are different; each little/middle is different! 

I love being a middle sometimes, when it doesn't get me in trouble with my Daddy - my Daddy loves it when I give him a bit of a spicy back-talk, or else it'd be rather boring haha. As soon as he snaps me back into my place, I immediately regress and it's the best feeling ever.   

Edited September 6, 2018 by Maids

[princessfreckles]

I'm a middle too! I never meet them in person. Actually most other littles I meat online are little littles. I get along with them, but to me they're adorable and younger than me. I love being a middle! I'm more independent, but still need a Daddy to make big decisions for me. It's weird because most people assume I'm bratty, when I'm actually not unless I'm tired or hungry. I'm very much a Daddy pleaser. 

[Dominari]

I personally prefer "middles". They are more independent. I think because of the development it allows me to be more of a mentor, teacher, cheerleader, etc. I feel like I can help guide them through everyday life and be a support system. I believe their sense of humor is a little more mature and quirky; It matches mine. I enjoy having more of an adult like conversation with them. They still like stuffies, cartoons, cuddles, and all those cute things. I know there is more.

 

Send me a message if you would like to talk. Any middles