Genderqueer & Androgynous Littles

[XmochiX]

I wasn't sure where to post this, but I was just curious to see if there were any other genderqueer or androgynous little's out there?

 

I am assigned female at birth and indentify as an androgyne, meaning I indentify as both male and female. I definitely feel more masculine, though, except for when I'm in little space. I have toyed with the idea of taking T, but honestly wouldn't know how to go about getting it. I don't plan on transitioning surgically in the future, but I am looking into buying a binder and I wear mostly male clothing. This is partially due to the fact that I am a nerd and guys get all the nerdy clothes, but also because I don't like to wear anything that really highlights my femininity, specifically my breasts.

 

Is anyone else out there genderqueer, questioning, or androgynous? Feel free to share.

[xxKawaiiDragonxx]

I am not sure if genderfluid counts, but umm. *Hides*

[XmochiX]

I am not sure if genderfluid counts, but umm. *Hides*

Of course it counts.

[ThePlushiePrincess]

I'm born female, but I'm never sure what term to use. I definitely don't ID as cisgender. I learn towards female when Little though. Other days I'm usually in between but I have my masculine days, 

[XmochiX]

I'm born female, but I'm never sure what term to use. I definitely don't ID as cisgender. I learn towards female when Little though. Other days I'm usually in between but I have my masculine days,

 

You definitely sound like you could be genderfluid. Welcome to the club!

[ThePlushiePrincess]

You definitely sound like you could be genderfluid. Welcome to the club!

 

Thanks! I'm glad there are other people like me. 

[Bingbongsfriend]

Born a male, but never identified as male. Identify much more as female, but not enough to want to be entirely female. In public wear almost entirely wear female clothing that looks gender neutral. With long hair and a very thin body, think it looks androgynous. Do really like more feminine clothing, but have been abused in public just trying to gender neutral. Living with religious parents that would not approve at all or that kind of thing. Lately to avoid unwanted attention, exercise early in the morning when it is still dark with few people around.

 

Does being straight apply to someone with male anatomy who attracted to females, but does not identify as male?  Have no attraction to males at all or desire to be more of a male. Having long hair and not looking masculine people associate with being gay, which I have been asking about. People do not understand that sexual orientation, gender expression and gender identity are all independent of each other.

 

Have not come up with a term that best describes how I feel about my gender identity. So far non-binary is the term that fits me best. Not really sure about person pronouns as none of them seem right for me. Definitely don’t like being referred to as a man or a Mr, it just sounds wrong. In the media there much more written about transgender and not about people who do not identify as either gender.

 

Growing up just dressed and did things that society expected of a male. Much of my schooling things were often quite highly segregated by gender, in particular having to wear uniforms and some of the classes. Was particularly jealous of the clothing my younger sister got to wear and loved to try it on when home alone.

[XmochiX]

Born a male, but never identified as male. Identify much more as female, but not enough to want to be entirely female. In public wear almost entirely wear female clothing that looks gender neutral. With long hair and a very thin body, think it looks androgynous. Do really like more feminine clothing, but have been abused in public just trying to gender neutral. Living with religious parents that would not approve at all or that kind of thing. Lately to avoid unwanted attention, exercise early in the morning when it is still dark with few people around.

 

Does being straight apply to someone with male anatomy who attracted to females, but does not identify as male?  Have no attraction to males at all or desire to be more of a male. Having long hair and not looking masculine people associate with being gay, which I have been asking about. People do not understand that sexual orientation, gender expression and gender identity are all independent of each other.

 

Have not come up with a term that best describes how I feel about my gender identity. So far non-binary is the term that fits me best. Not really sure about person pronouns as none of them seem right for me. Definitely don’t like being referred to as a man or a Mr, it just sounds wrong. In the media there much more written about transgender and not about people who do not identify as either gender.

 

Growing up just dressed and did things that society expected of a male. Much of my schooling things were often quite highly segregated by gender, in particular having to wear uniforms and some of the classes. Was particularly jealous of the clothing my younger sister got to wear and loved to try it on when home alone.

You sound like you could be androgyne as androgyne is defined as being both male and female, neither, or somewhere in between. You could also be agender, which pertains to having no gender or being indifferent to it or nuetrosis, which is identifying as gender neutral.

 

Feel free to message me

[Bingbongsfriend]

You sound like you could be androgyne as androgyne is defined as being both male and female, neither, or somewhere in between. You could also be agender, which pertains to having no gender or being indifferent to it or nuetrosis, which is identifying as gender neutral.

 

Feel free to message me

 

Thank you for your input, spent a bit of time looking up those terms and none fitted that well.

 

Androgyne – there isn’t both feminine and masculine, do not think there is much masculine identity

Agender and Neutrois – have some feminine identity

 

Partially identifying as feminine and partially some unknown gender to a lesser extent, but probably no masculine best describes how I feel.  Found the term Demigirl, which is the closest so far to the way I feel.

 

https://nonbinary.miraheze.org/wiki/Demigender

 

“A demigirl is someone who only partially (not wholly) identifies as a girl or woman, whatever their assigned gender at birth.[2] They may or may not identify as another gender[3] in addition to feeling partially a girl or woman..”

 

Discovering my gender identity is some that I would really like to do, so that I better able accept myself the way I am. Does anyone have any really good links to good descriptions of non-binary identities?

[RainbowPigtails]

Hello! I'm new to ddlg/cgl and haven't had the opportunity to define my identity in that respect.
I identify as agender or ex-trans. I took testosterone for a couple of months before I decided ftm wasn't right for me, so I could offer advice to anyone who is interested. Here's a great site: http://www.ftmguide.org/ttherapybasics.html

My gender expression is still in flux. I'm kind of stuck wearing traditional business woman outfits because I want to be taken seriously at work and I hate it. I'm slowly trying to find pieces that feel more "me." If I had it my way, I'd be a mix between the hot elfgutz guys with less piercings and cute lolita/fairy kei.

Edited December 3, 2018 by RainbowPigtails

[Rainbow_Suspenders]

Agender for me.

 

I don't understand gender, and after spending the majority of my life trying to, I've deciding that I don't really care.  I'm me, and if that means that I don't fit into the boxes provided, then that surprises me how?

[toastyhobbit]

i'm gender fluid.  after figuring out some of my little feelings, i realized that one of the big genders i was feeling was 'boy'. which was interesting cuz i've rarely felt like much of a guy and certainly never a man.  i've contemplated a couple surgeries i might end up wanting, but am pretty sure i don't want to take t, because most of the time i enjoy having a high singing voice, tho i'm not a fan of having people hear it and think it means i'm a woman *shudders*  thankfully, it turns out that fits really nicely with being a boy!!  

 

i'm really excited to explore boy space, tho i feel like i won't end up always being a boy while little.

[Little kaiya]

Edited September 6, 2019 by Little kaiya