Dezzi Posted August 6, 2018 Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 I confessed to my... Well ex daddy that i love him and wanted to be more than just a ddlg relationship... He rejected me and broke up with me as dd and lg. Well this truthfully happened about a mknth ago... Before that i hadnt gone into little space in a long time... I miss little space and ive been trying to gwt back out there but i keep meeting fakes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhysperKit Posted August 6, 2018 Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 What are you confused about? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Prat Posted August 6, 2018 Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 Same question. Although I guess you're one of those littles that needs a Daddy to be able to go little-mode, in which case... You need more time to form a relationship with someone, way more than a month anyway. Also, not everyone who doesn't meet your demands or doesn't match with you is a "fake". You'll need to chill, meet someone and see if you like them as a person and a Daddy and are compatible and then decide to get together and I'm pretty sure your little space will be restored in no time after that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dezzi Posted August 6, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 (edited) What are you confused about? Im confuswd as to way he turned me down we were together for a year and he seemed to have the same feelings Edited August 6, 2018 by Dezzi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dezzi Posted August 6, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 Same question. Although I guess you're one of those littles that needs a Daddy to be able to go little-mode, in which case... You need more time to form a relationship with someone, way more than a month anyway. Also, not everyone who doesn't meet your demands or doesn't match with you is a "fake". You'll need to chill, meet someone and see if you like them as a person and a Daddy and are compatible and then decide to get together and I'm pretty sure your little space will be restored in no time after that. I meant fake as just wanting sex... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleCelticLass Posted August 6, 2018 Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 I'm confused about what you mean by "more than just a DDlg relationship". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Prat Posted August 6, 2018 Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 I meant fake as just wanting sex... Try stating you're looking for a nonsexual relationship, that might help filter out the "fakes". Or maybe just extend the time of the consideration period. Those people seeking only sex usually give up after a couple weeks.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhysperKit Posted August 6, 2018 Report Share Posted August 6, 2018 Not all dynamics are the same. Some are purely sexual, some aren't sexual at all. That's something that should be discussed so nothing is misunderstood. It sounds like your ex wanted just a DDLG relationship, nothing more, but that point was never made. It's rough but move on. Maybe make your desires known in the beginning (what you want, like, don't want, etc.) of the next relationship. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dezzi Posted August 7, 2018 Author Report Share Posted August 7, 2018 I'm confused about what you mean by "more than just a DDlg relationship". I wanted to be his girlfriend instead of just a little Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Arc Posted August 11, 2018 Report Share Posted August 11, 2018 I meant fake as just wanting sex... Just because they don't want what you want does not make them fakes. Some people want a sexual based relationship and that's just as real and valid as any other. There is no right or wrong way to do DDLG (as long as it's safe and there's consent) because everyone is so different, so one based around sex is just as real as one that's not. It's not fair to call them fake because they aren't what you want. Perhaps being clear about what you are looking for will help you find someone who is after what you are too. Be completely clear of everything you are aware you want from the start so there's less chance for being hurt over something later on. It sounds like you ex just wanted a DDLG relationship and nothing more, which is okay but perhaps it should have been made clear from the start that that's all the relationship would ever be. When I've had play partners in the past I've always discussed how far we see things going early on. I was hurt in my very first relationship after entering the BDSM community and now I like to have that discussion just to know where things sit at that time. Obviously it can change over time but for me it helps me feel more secure at first because I know where we stand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilsensitivedaddy Posted August 22, 2018 Report Share Posted August 22, 2018 Hey, im a little confused about babysitters.... Can they take care of more than 1 little? Or like i dont know i need help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WhysperKit Posted August 24, 2018 Report Share Posted August 24, 2018 Hey, im a little confused about babysitters.... Can they take care of more than 1 little? Or like i dont know i need help It's all up to the Babysitter and the Little and (maybe, if they have one) their CG. It varies depending on the person(s) involved ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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